Sorry if this is in the wrong place, but to the point. My and my girlfriend are trying anal sex and are having a few problems. First, any warming sensation lubrication burns inside of her, so was wondering if anyone knew if there was non-warming sensation. Second, i've only tried one finger so far, because havn't been able to use two because no lube, and she finds it really painful, anyways, she feels like she has to take a shit, anyone know how to get passed this? And just any other tips would be great.