i have been masterbating recently and i noticed that the "lips" as some people call them are getting bigger.i was wondering if i should stop masterbation and if this is normal. also, when i masterbate i usually need something with viberation to get an orgasm, will this effect me when i start to have sex? i have never before but i want it to feel good. i kno that i will go to third base before i go all the way and it would be slightly embarresing if i couldnt have an oragasm. so any help would be much appriciated.
Well, when you are aroused, the inner lips do swell slightly because they are engored with blood. As for using a vibrator every time for masturbating, you can also try massaging your clitoris with your finger. You don't have to have an orgasm the first time you try, but just do it to get used to it.
the tissue that the lips are made of is similar to penile tissue, it tends to swell when aroused and becomes more sensetive. as for orgasming, i've been sexually active for four years now and still have yet to orgasm. ever. as i see it, that shouldn't be the goal of sex. rolling around and cuddling and such is enjoyable and intimate. orgasm doesn't validate the session as a success. it shouldn't be a stressful thing, just have fun and let what will happen, happen ^_^