So I am 17 and my girlfriend is 18. She is/was a virgin. The first time we tried having sex it was painful for her and she bled pretty decently. So once we noticed all the blood, we decided to stop. The second time we tried it was still just as painful, and I actually think she bled more than the first time, so again we decided to stop. How long is this going to happen? Are we doing something wrong here?
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We've tried having sex twice now.
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Well since she was a virgin when she met you the bleeding is common and so is the pain. Something I recomend is taking it slow my girl was like that too after a while she will get use to it and the pain will turn to pleasure. You are doing nothing wrong all you have to do is give time and patience slow and steady wins the race.
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Yeah we have definately been going at it slow. I just feel bad that she has to go through this pain.
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Do plenty of foreplay to get her wet, or buy some lubrication from the store. It took me and my bf a good 6+ tries and a few months for him to penetrate me. You could also try using your fingers first to loosen her up a bit.
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Yeah I know what you mean it will hurt at first, but once it becomes pleasure you will be happy and so will she. Foreplay will do both good to it will losen her up a bit and she will be calmer.
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it took me and my bf like 2 tries to penetrate me fully the first times we had sex loli think it depends on the people dont stress