I have a friend and everyone and myself thinks that she has a crush on me. For those of you who don't know, I'm gay. The other twist: all of our friends have now hooked up and we're the only 2 single people in our whole "circle." This kind of makes things really awkward. Whenever we're hanging out, she's always going where I go and always staying around me. At times, she will even lay her head on my shoulder. I will then make a little wiggling motion to a position a few inches away from her. The question is: how do I tell her (without verbally telling her) that I don't like-like her and that I only want to be friends?
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She Likes Me, I Don't Like Her
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well does she know you're gay? if not you should drop her a hint. and tell her you're not that kind of person. just try not to misleas her lol
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She doesn't know, and dropping a hint...uh I don't know how I'd do that. 50% of the time, my friends are joking around about being gay or using anti-gay slurs (I really should rethink my choice of friends) and anything I do, she might just think I'm trying to be one of them.
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tell her with out telling her?
I think your fucked here buddy.
pull her aside one night, go out with just her or something, tell her how much ya like her and say some shit about if you were not gay youd be all over her.
I duno really, I think your fucked. you can either hurt her feelings and tell her your not interested in her, or you can tell her WHY your not interested in her. -
you can point a guy out and say "wow he's hott" lol or something like that. she should get the point
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Another part of the equation is that she gets upset really easily and it puts her in serious depression periods. Another thing is that she doesn't know that I think she likes me and no one knows for sure. I think she is definately wanting me to ask her out, but maybe she'll do it and I can just tell her then. That's what I'll do, I'll just hold out until then.
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I think you should simply tell her how you feel about this. Being rejected by someone almost always pains a bit, but this is a small wound. It can be easily healed in no time.Furthermore, I think she has already understood some of your feelings. If she acts "strange" and you don't respond, she'll get the message anytime soon.
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Other than coming out and telling her you are gay, you can drop other hints like "There's no one in this school I am interested in." I used that line a few times in high school with girls that had crushes on me and they got the hint that I wasn't interested. Though to be honest once my close group of friends knew I was gay it made things a lot easier lol.
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Hmm.. This is very bad I would (as everyone else has said) drop hints and talk about howyou arent interested with her.