Im, turning 15 in a month and a half, and I have been going out with my girl friend for a year and a half now. We have never done anything really but kissed once or twice, but two days ago I found a new found talent of mine(I came for the first time) and decided maybe me and my gf could finally move on and fool around a little. So I invited her over to a party I was having along with about 9 other guys and girls. While everyone was busy I sneaked off to find my girl and I found her in the laundry room making out with her best friend!!! I didnt talk to her the rest of the night. What should I do? I care about her but its just weird knowing that she's not straight.
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My Girl Friend Is BI!
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Lucky, now if you have a 3some, she can do magical tricks!Was your girlfriend under the influence of anything?
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No alcahol or drugs that I know of. Everyone I invited are my close friends and we dont do it.
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Then she is Bi.
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That guy doesn't have any idea what he's talking about. A lot of girls experiment, making out with other girls. It doesn't mean that she's bisexual. But if she's fooling around with another person behind your back, it could be an issue. Maybe she doesn't see necking with a female friend as cheating.
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Read 1 post above you, the ending. Idiot.
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I read "Then she is Bi.", you f**king little prck.As far as most of this stuff is concerned, you are completely clueless. There's nothing wrong with that; we all were clueless at one time. But you need to have to wisdom to know when to keep quiet. You seem to be sorely lacking in that department. You just spew bllsht like a bllsh*t fountain. What's the point? How about you shut up, and maybe you'll learn something. Relationship help is definitely not your department. Maybe you should go have a relationship first.
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you can tell him facts and truths all day Steve, they dont phase him.Want to piss him off? tell him about eddie van halen sucking sammy hagars wang, or the orgy robert plant had with david bowie, elton john, and jimme paige.Tell him that Hendrix was a pioneer in guitar and music and that Led zeplin is stale music.tell him about songs that are about vietnam are not really very romantic at all.explain that the blonde bitch who ruined van halen IS sammy hagar.those are the things that make him blow.
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ChanDaMan, here's a relevant post from yesterday. The point is that she likes to make out with her friend, but she doesn't consider herself gay at all (and presumably not bi either).
Chance, Led Zeppelin is as dated as the Moody Blues. Robert Plant is OK, but comparing him to Hendrix is like comparing the Backstreet Boys to Beethoven. Zepellin is way over.
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Thanks Steve. I called her ten minutes ago and she said im "over reacting" (no the first times shes said that) and that she doesnt want to talk to me. Now shes not answering her phone. I dont know, whether shes exploring or whatever I still dont like her doing it. Especially when she doesnt let me know.
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uhnnmmmmm...your signature...Girls, Tacos, Money, Xbox, paintball.you claim its in that order but I think your wrong.with money, you can buy all ya want of the other 4.
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No beleive me...tacos are much more important than money
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Your one lucky dude having a chance at a threesome. Next time ask to watch and then get involved once things are heated up.
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It sounds like she's upset because she thinks you're saying that you don't trust her. Is it a big deal? Is it cheating? That depends on how you feel. You should ask her how she'd feel if she caught you making out with a guy friend. If she says she doesn't mind, well...that would be interesting.
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if she is bi,so what?why would matter or change anything?but i do understand that it is upsetting that she did this behind your back.but,i've heard of girls practicing kissing on each other
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The most recent girl I've been dating is bi. I honestly think you should let it go. If it doesn't work out, you're 15. There will be others.
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**In my opinion being Bi, does not mean you have to have a relationship with someone of both sexes at the same time. If she was your girlfriend, then she shouldn't have been messing around with ANYONE be them male or female, just cos she is bi, doesn't mean that being with a woman when she is in a relationship with you isn't wrong, cos it is, cheating is cheating no matter what sex you cheat with. **
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exactly! if shes with a chick when shes sposta b ur gf, its cheating, same as with a guy. u dont need 2 dumb her if shes not doin anything tho....and it depends on the guy, i asked sum mate if their gf was with a chick, is it cheating? sum said yes it is, sum said hell no its not...depends on the guy
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I completely agree Angel.
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I called her up and told her that she has one more chance. I told her if she does something behind my back like that again that I would have to dump her. She said that she was bi and that I should deal with it, and then dumped me :frowning: Kinda sucks cuz i have been goin out with her for a while now...we had a great relationship. Its almost like she changed from being the best and nicest girl ever to a lying uncareing one overnight.