Ok so me and my girlfreind have been going out for a while now. We both love each other a lot. But . . . About 2 months back her sister had to come with us when we were going to a concert cause her parents made my girlfreind take her with us. She is only a year younger then me. Well we got to the concert and her sister kept hanging on to me and just touching me a lot, After we aksed her she said she liked me.So after the concert we got back and me andm y grilfreind got on the computer and started talking. She asked me if i liked her sister back i said "Yes" But i didnt mean it the way it sounded. I meant like "Yes, She seems cool". After i had said that i paused and realized how that sounded.She then got really sad and for about a week was just sad.So then after that week she felt better but asked me once more why i do. I said i liked her just as a freind ( the trusth) But she didnt seem to belive me. So she just forgot about it, Or so i thought.A few weeks later she got feeling sad again at school. My freinds told me how she was acting. And i felt like Shit (Is cursing ok here?) Cause she was crying and just was acting horrible. So i went to talk to her. She said that ever since that one night she has always felt sad and down about it. I kept telling her that i didnt. But she doesnt belive me.So now she still loves me. but gets Angry with me very badly. Like if i don't pay attention to her. Which i have been doing lately (but not on purpse) just because lots of times im on the phone i'll be busy cleaning or something else.And a couple of day's ago she got mad again cause she was asking me if i was anoyying her ( cause her and here sister were just saying stuff for fun) And i just said no it's ok. So they just kept on. Thought it was anoyying me a bit, I didnt mind. So later that night i ended up telling her i was getting a little anoyyed but no big deal. So again she felt bad because she kept saying i lied to her and i she was anoyying me. So now she hasn't really been talking that much. Cause that's how she gets when she's in a bad mood. She said she didnt want to talk laugh or say anything cause she said she didnt want to"Anoyy me". But i think it's just cause she's mad.So i'm gonna ask. What should i do? She almost never belive's me about stuff when i say i don't like anyone else. Or that i'm always lying to her.Whew long post hehe :P
Ahhh help anyone?
Well yeh I know where you are coming from my sister had similar expiriences with her boyfriend he was always saying that she kept changin her words and hurt real bad. The whole deal led to many arguments, but they seem to resolve it and get into arguments again. Yet I noticed the reason was because of trust there is no trust in the relationship there is love but no trust. What you have to do is build trust you have to talk to her tell her how you feel open her eyes and make her notice she isn't the one getting hurt is you. My sister used the breaking up with him if he didn't changed that actually made him open his eyes long enough to notice what he had done to her you need to do the same. Don't blame yourself for what happen just talk about it communication is the key part of a relationship.
I'll do exactly that. Thanks guys.Though i want be able to acutally see her till this weekend. So we'll see how it turns out