OK first of all i am 21 and have been having a problem with getting an erection with my girlfriend,Id like to point out that its not an attraction issue,My girlfriend and i have talked about this problem and want to work on it,She is very understanding now about it and wants to work on it since everthing else in our relationship is great except for the sex.While we are fooling around i can get an ererction and keep it until she says "lets have sex now" then i get really anxious or nervous,or other times i can keep it untell i go for it then i lose it,due nervousness then the thoughts of what if i lose it? comes up and then it spoils everything,untill about 20 mins later but then the mood is already ruined and neither of us feel like trying.OK so since this is the first girl ive had sex with 2 times already but still had to work on it. Things i think of why i can get an erection but then lose itI'm new to sex,Im worried about being new to sex and thus its making me anxious or nervous So wondering if i can get some insight on the problem or is it just that i need to become more active and try and things will eventually work out.I'm kind of getting worried about my problem since this girl is almost my other half,She is accepting of it and is willing to help me out she belives that we were made for each other BUT she also told me that if i cant fix it or try to that it will no longer be. MAN i thinks dudes worried about there penis size should be thankful it works at all and not the size of it
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well thats what im hoping it just is.My girlfriend and i are going to see kind of some tests on our own like how far i can fool around before i lose it while also trying to be more looser and relaxed,If after a bit that dont work then i will goto a doctor and see if there is a medical issue for it.Im just wondering but i heard viagra and other pills like that is expensive for just one pill...??? So how does that work. does one pill work for a few days or just one pill one boner lol??? Its not an option for me at this time but maybe later.
k what i ment by test is,,,ok since this happen to me 2 months ago i havent went past kissing her cuz im afraid it wont work.,and it because im new that im scared out of my balls of doing stuff.So she wants to get me more loosened up towards her,Cuz where im at i dont even try to have sex with her no more for fear of what might happen. EDIT but im glad she trying to help me...if she left me then id still have these thought about the next girl eh?