ATTENTION GUYS

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i am a twelve year old girl and i was wondering do you like a girl just for thier looks

oh jeez chick calm down lol. don't worry about it. number one, you're probably very beautiful and overreacting. number two, stop worring about guys. they'll come to you when the time is right. and number three, don't be so obsessed with looks it's not the only thing people want.

It depends on things the guy in my opinion. Most men have different feelings towards this.

yay,three other 12yr olds on the board(that i no about,anyway lol)looks don't matter that much to me(except the eyes).of course,looks are what get you noticed,but your personality is what really matters.

I'll admit look's don't bother me. But at the same time you can't look too bad.

But I tend to go more for personality.

I have a twelve year old and i can't get why you lot would want to be on a site like this, and secondly if my son was on here i would kick his ass!

You would kick your sons ass if he was on here? What if he had questions that he didnt feel comfortable about? I think that is why there are a few 10-12 year olds here...

Well I guess you are right, but there are SO many things on here i don't think are appropriate for a 12 year old to know about, never mind in such detail LOL

That's what the owner (and orignator) of this site said. He won't allow his young adolescent to come here, but he sees no problem with a 17-year-old being on this site.

True, I agree that there is some explicit material on here.

I DO care about looks, but I dont "just" care about looks.

Well of course looks matter at first because before you talk to someone thats all youve got to go on. But i think, after you get to know someone the personality becomes more and more important.

Well i suppose you become friends first like at college or work or whatever. But people dont just go up to people they dont find attractive and ask them out. So realy i think it depends how you get to know someone.

I think it takes a combination of looks and personality.For the most part though, I think personality is more important.

because i only have one friend(no offense,aj!)who has a lot of other friends so cant be at my house all the time,so basicly i dont have anything better to do. In reply to:there are SO many things on here i don't think are appropriate for a 12 year old to know about there isn't a kindergardener i know who doesn't all about those things.

I prefer a mix of both, personality and looks. But i know looks aint the most important thing.

Sometimes I wish this site had some sort of age limit on it. I know people would lie anyways and come on here, but at least the age limit would be out there and maybe we wouldn't have some of the questions and situations that come up occasionally.I love this site, but I am older than some of these young kids, ei 12 y.o.If my kid were old enough to get on the computer, I would kill him too if I found him no this site or a site similar to this one. That is my opinion.

there isn't a kindergardener i know who doesn't all about those things.There seem to be a lot of people around here who are much older than kindergareners who don't. Around here people talk about advanced sex topics, violence, drugs, and other such things. The guy who started and runs this place (a physician) disagrees with you.

i doubt he knows the same kindergardeners i do.

It sounds like you live in a war zone.