So i turn 20 very soon and have just gone through a stage of my life i have never experienced before, i think i have fallen for somebody. To track back, 1 and half months ago i meet a girl..spent some decent time with each other, every day we seem to get closer and closer, can't find anything to fault each other on. I think i am really hooked on this girl and the problem is she lives on the other side of the world and is heading home in just 2 weeks time. I originally met up with the girl on a night out, we decided to meet up the next day and things just went from there. I am intending on going to Europe in the next few months for as long as i possibly can, i am Australian. She has offered me a place in Switzerland, i'm just wondering if anyone has experienced or heard of these types of romances..i guess i'd love to hear some thoughts on overseas love stories or similar experiences. My apologies for such a dreary first post, but in my 20 years of existence i have never felt such feelings for another human being before. Ain't love a bitch
Never felt this in 20 years, small problem.
Welcome to A2A KleenexCongrats on finding someone to steel your heart away. I don't think anyone can tell you what to do here. There are certainly some of us who have been in long distance relationships. They really tug at your heart strings and often leave you feeling sad because the Skype and phone calls cant and wont replace the time you love to spend with each other.I flew across the country to be there at my partners side. it was the best move I have ever made. after all the failed relationships I was afraid but I used my head and followed my heart being open with him and we made it work. we have been together for 19 years now.so if it's meant to be, it will happen and you both will do what has to be done so you can be together. just remember 6 months or a year isn't very long in the whole schemm of things. Be adult. understand and discuss your feeling and emotions. make sure that you make the decision together and with all your cards on the table..it would suck to move there and find out if didn't work and you didn't have any options to go back home..be adult and be smart with your decision making. don't just think with your dick, if your horny call and have phone sex and use your hand but if you wanna be with her, don't screw it up by humping someone else.Good luck Bro !
Thank you very much Roc! exactly the kind of answer i was looking for, hearing about these similar situations working out really is amazing to hear.