Help! Sex and uncircumsized!

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Hey guys, new to these boards.

K, well, I just had a few questions. Well, my girlfriend and I have been getting pretty serious, and it looks like it won't be long before we finally go ahead and have sex. We've been talking about it for awhile, and it seems like something we both want to do. The only problem is, I'm uncircumsized and have never really been able to retract the foreskin all the way. It seems as though the foreskin is tight right around the middle of the head, so I can only get it about a quarter(ish) of the way down. In addition to the fact that I can't get the foreskin down, I've never really masturbated in the traditional fashion. When I do masturbate, I'll usually place the tip of my finger on the foreskin while it covers the head completely and move my finger in a circular motion, stimulating the head directly. I guess my questions come in here. Since I can't retract the foreskin all the way, is sex impossible? Is it possible but just a bad idea? Will it be so painful that I should really just avoid it? Will the fact that I'm not used to 'normal' stimulation have any negative effects? Thanks for listening, and any replies would be greatly appreciated!

Oh yeah, and we'd be using a condom, of course, if that makes any difference as to how much the foreskin wouuld be 'pulled on'.

You really should look up the foreskin stretching techniques on this forum, and work on stretching your foreskin so it retracts normally. Having said that, here are some answers to your questions:In reply to:Since I can't retract the foreskin all the way, is sex impossible? No, it's not impossible. Just won't be as enjoyable as it could potentially be if you had a fully retractable foreskin. Since you will be using a condom (great idea, BTW), the condom will prevent much of the pulling back of the foreskin issue when your thrust in the vagina, so you should have little risk of pain or the foreskin getting stuck from the vagina pulling on the foreskin on the in-stroke. If she's not well lubricated naturally when you have sex, be sure to use some extra lube on the condom (water based of course, KY, etc.) to make sure there's no tugging on the condom. The issue with the pleasure that I mentioned, is when you have a condom on a foreskin-covered glans (head), you're not going to get much feeling or sensation during sex passing through to the glans, which is where much of the sensitivity in your penis is. Also, the frenulum won't be exposed much to stimulation either, if at all, and that is the other sensitivie area of your penis. It'll still be fun, just not as good as it could be if you could retract your foreskin to expose the head completely before putting the condom on. In reply to:Will it be so painful that I should really just avoid it? There is a possibility of the condom trying to move back and tugging on the foreskin to move back too on the in stroke, especially if the condom is loose fitting on you. This could cause some pain if you normally get pain when retracting. Try using a condom while masturbating first to get an idea. With the condom on, masturbate with some lube, and see how it feels, and try tugging on the condom downwards and see if it tugs on your foreskin, and if it hurts. Then you'll have a pretty good idea if it will hurt or not during sex. In reply to:Will the fact that I'm not used to 'normal' stimulation have any negative effects? The stimulation you have been doing is 'normal', it just isn't the full deal. So, you should be fine.

no need to double post.