In movies or shows whenever two girls are close together and love each other like sisters people see it as regular best friends. but when two guys are close and love each other like brothers and are indeed best friends people say they're gay? Why can't two guys love each other as best friends and brothers without being perceived as gay? That kind of ruins the whole admiration of the friendship. There's a difference between loving someone as lovers and loving someone as brothers, am I right? You can make that distinction right? BROTHERS NOT LOVERS! So how come the world can't?
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How come
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simply because.....the world is gay( i mean that in the 2nd grade insult way)
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people say they're gay? becasue they are stupid and immature?
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Originally Posted By: sdp people say they're gay? becasue they are stupid and immature? Sounds about right.
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Once you get older .. i think that perception changes
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Thats why you say "no homo"For example, "Dude i love you..no homo"
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Originally Posted By: eh501
Thats why you say "no homo"
For example, "Dude i love you..no homo"
.... interesting ....
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Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyself Originally Posted By: eh501Thats why you say "no homo"For example, "Dude i love you..no homo" .... interesting .... "Dude i love you..."
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but that makes no sense! so you mean every time my brother would says to his friend "I love you, man" he has to say "no homo"? then shouldn't girls have to say "no lesbo?"
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I believe he was being facetious. Just chalk it up to immaturity. I have two hetero-life mates. Although I don't just say, "dude, I love you" out of the blue, there are certain times when I've said, "yeah man, you know I'd do anything for ya man, I love ya." Things like that. We understand what's meant behind it [read as "no homo"], and the people who may hear it, understand as well. Nothing wrong with two guys being close friends. Just don't dwell on it, it's obvious the people who say it haven't had that kind of a bond with another person as of yet.
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I think it all started with the whole macho man thing and admitting you were gay or acting gay was perceived as being weak and less manly. It's kinda like a cave man thing.Did you ever notice that lesbian girls are not nearly as made fun of as gay guys? and that guys are the ones 99% of the time making fun of gay guys. It's just how the world is. I would fight for my friends till the death and I love doing stuff with my friends but I don't see it as gay. Sometimes gay people annoy me but I don't at all hate them. They're kinda fun to talk to.
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I guess I kind of understand but it's still stupid. Quote:Sometimes gay people annoy me but I don't at all hate them. They're kinda fun to talk to. there's something about this sentence that just irks me. Maybe it's the way you worded it so I'm not going to get into it.but, um... it's not like gay people are some rare unknown species lol.
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Apparently you've never been to Alabama. I hear they're devoid of homosexuals down there. And maybe he gets annoyed at some of the things they do?? Things that usually pertain to homosexuals?? lol but like you, I don't want to start anything Continue.