im a 16 year old girl and just had sex for my first time this past saturday.. the guy went only half in most of the time because i was very worried. i had popped my cherry previously so i wouldnt have to deal with pain. but anyways he didn't use a condom. about 3 days later i went to the bathroom and when i wiped there was blood so i put a tampon in thinking i got my period. later that day i went to the bathroom, wiped, to find out there was still blood on the toilet paper. when i took my tampon out there was nothing on it. when i urinate it doesnt burn or sting but my i get an uncomfortable feeling around my bladder area. at the moment i am very itchy in my vagina passage way. i am really nervous and have noo idea what i might have. PLEASE give me advice asap
Worried.. need advice ASAP!
It sounds like because you were tense you were very tight, and the bleeding may be because of that and will probably disappear. The itchness sounds like your vagina is healing, and that should pass too. Having unprotected sex is stupid, and of course you would be worried, the uncomfortable feeling could also be due to the fact that you were tight and it was uncomfortable during sex. Im not sure if symptoms of STD's show up within 3 days, not having ever had one, im sure someone else will have some idea on that one.
your right about bleeding stopping. i know having unprotected sex was stupid but i'm not really worried about being pregnant. im more worried i might have an infection. but i dont want to go to the doctor and my parents find out i like my virginity.