I'm a virgin who is about to get married (20 days to be exact). This is the first time I have really read much about stretching and all that stuff. My problem is that when I'm erect i can only pull the foreskin down about halfway down the head. Do i need to be able to pull it all the way down (past the head) and then insert it. Or leave it alone after trying to stretch it and insert it when it is not pulled back?
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Virgin about to get married
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If you are using a condom it won't be a problem. If you are having unprotected sex then you will experience some difficulties if she is not properly lubricated. Take some time with foreplay, get her wet and you should be okay.Besides if she is also a virgin it won't be all out to start with anyway.Check elsewhere on this topic for stretching techniques.
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You should be aware that it is possible for the forskin to be forced back and hence, it getting stuck behind the head.
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yes you can have sex this way but it can also be painful. how much of the head can you expose?
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i can expose about 3/4 down the head. i probably should have mentioned that she is also a virgin. she is on birth control so we will not be using a condom. also will the pain be unbearable or will it gradually subside as we continue to have sex.
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The problem with this is that the foreskin will get pushed back. Depending on circumstances there are several issues at hand. #1. Your glans, because it has never been exposed, will be highly sensitive. This can mean that contact may be uncomfortable to painful.#2. Forcing the glans back can cause a tear in the frenulum#3. Forcing the glans back can cause it to get stuck behind the head. This can be alarming. If it can not be returned for an extended period it can also be dangerous if it traps blood flow to the head.All of this beind said, I would recommend reading the stretching threads and get to work on being able to retract as much as possible.
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i have started the stretching techniques yesterday. my question is, how long a day/"session" should i do the stretching. basically how long should i hold it stretched for. also i wonder how severe my situation is. today i acheived a very hard erection and pulled back the skin to see how far it could go. without any real pain (just slight discomfort) i can get it near the bottom of the head. since i am a virgin and literally have had no experience I really want to know how far back the skin get's pulled during sex. i have waited my whole life to have sex with the woman i marry and I want to know as much as i can before i do. i don't know very much about all of this so could i just be acting very paranoid?
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Well you seem to be almost there which is much better than others. You need to stretch and hold as long as you can and as often as possible. If you can get it so that it is commfortably behind the head, then you are doing OK. Don't force anything. Give it time.
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you seem to be making progress but you could have a problem the first time if her hymen is still there. it takes some pressure to get through that. maybe you can loosen up the skin by using it to masturbate.