well im 13, i know you might think its to young to actually knooooowwwww these things about yourself, But i am bisexual, I know im bisexual. If you are heterosexual do you like ever remember being young like really young like 8,9 or 10 and just seeing the opposite sex as attractive, you know when that stuff just barely starts to happen, well since that point in my life it has benn girls and boys, but most of all and especially the same sex, boys, Well for about a year now i just feel so locked up in my mind, i feel like nobody really knows me, but i would really like them too... But it especially hurts to have such a huge secret kept from my parents. Because i really do love them, and somehow i think it is keeping me from wanting to actually get close to them and show them that i love them. Becuase of my veiws that i state around the house about how i think nobody should be descriminated for being lesbian or homosexual in any way, they may have gotten a hint, but knowing my parents they dont catch on too easy. but anyway my dad trys to be nice about it to not offend me, but im sure deep down he is discusted with homosexuals becuase of the way he used to talk before i told him to stop it. i wanna tell my parents so bad, becuase it seems like me being so bottled up is alreadfy starting to lead to other problems that i dont really want to talk about.. what should i do so my parents dont like disown me, becuase i really hate the position my life is in right now, and the road im leading down, and its obviously only gonna get worse if you really think hard about it, so id like improve my days a little bit and sart going uphill... what should i do?
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I want to come out baddddd
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You know I used to have trouble with the same problem... I am myself turned on by like seeing a dick, but I like girls. Sounds wierd I know, but that doesn't mean that I'm bi, or gay. I know its totally confusing, and I (and I know I'm going to offend someone) think that homosexuality is wrong... oh my I said it, just get all the angry comments out now. But anyway, I think its normal for a male to think the same sex's parts are attractive, they just don't want to come out and say it. Or am I the only one??
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yea but you see, im not just turned on by the sexual concept of homosexuality i like how men are masculan, i like the way they look, and the sexual thoughts turn me on too... becuase i didnt choose to liek guys, its not cuz im a weirdo or fuckin kinky i am what i am, and i like guys and girls but i really really like guys
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HUGS N CUDDLES::
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So.. what's the question? Get on out there! Everyone is different and unique. There's no problem with that!
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In reply to:its not cuz im a weirdo or fuckin kinky i am what i amIt couldn't be better put, Frog. You are what you are, and there's nothing wrong with that. You should accept yourself, and others should too. But both you and others may need to some time to get used to the idea.
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yep i amm trying to get used to the me, where im not all cooped up and alone, i think i might be able to tel my parents soon, wether they like it or not, becuase if they dont love me no matter what, who needs em...
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no offence but that wasnt helpful in the leats ( to the one who told me he is straight but likes looking at dicks... i think u need to search in yourself and make sure your not just saying you think homosexuality is gross becuase thats what your dad says, becuase yes although guys sometimes to peak at other men's johns just to see the i guess you could say competition ( even though its stupid) there is a difference from comparing and calling urself straight when u lovvveee to see dicks, its kinda like ur with ur gf and she is all like, lets have sex and ur like, o ok i need a boner though so before that ill look up some gay porn.. ok?
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Unfortunately, Frog, you need your parents to support you financially at the moment (I assume), so you can't really say "who needs 'em" quite yet.It's a terrible fact of life that parents have been known to throw their sons out of the house onto the streets when they found out he was gay. Most parents don't do that, of course - even if they don't like it they accept it eventually; or else they pretend it isn't true. But it does happen, too often. So you need to bear the possibility in mind, and consider how your parents might react.
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well i dont think they would throw me out or anything, my parents would never hurt me, i know that much, and everyday i think about it, it just keeps seeming more and more logical that i Do tell them..
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I'm sorry I could not help you in your situation. But your response isn't quite atiquite to what I had said either. If you look around the site a bit, you would see that it is quite normal, on the other hand, for a guy to find a penis influencing in their sexual activity, as well as a woman. And no, I wouldn't tell my WIFE, pertaining to the sanctity of marriage, "Oh dear, let me go look at some gay porn first!" Cuz I said, before, "I like girls too," yeah, and I told you, its crazy, but who said anything was simple. And I have looked deep inside before, been there done that. I know what I am, and as the precluding comments have stated, thats all that matters... Thankyou all for your tollerance. Really, I thought I was going to have an uproar because I said homosexuallity is wrong, thankyou! Oh yeah, and "and make sure your not just saying you think homosexuality is gross becuase thats what your dad says." My father being God, oh yes... :grin:
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i think u should just stop liking dudes