Getting soft when condom on

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Me and my girlfriend were going to have sex last nite, but as soon as I put the condom on I got soft. So then we started fooling around again until I got hard, then when I went to put the condom on, I got soft again. What should I do?

Perhaps you are getting a bit anxious when putting on the condom? That used to happen to me. Try having the condom unwrapped and ready to go so you can put it on quickly and get back into action, helped for me. Also make sure you are using the right size condom, if you are struggling getting it on you might want to try a larger size. If your girth is 5" or above, magnums should work nice for you.

Something else to try, though might not be for you, is to look into a cock ring. It'll help you stay hard. Just make sure if you go this route you look into the proper use of the cock ring so you don't hurt yourself.

I am getting very anxious while putting the condom on. It takes me like 10 seconds to put it on. I am not big or anything, so I don't think I need bigger ones. How do you measure the girth though?

You measure around the penis, that will give you your girth.If you are getting overly anxious when putting on the condom that is probably the issue. You're getting so worked up you're going soft, which is normal. Either have the condom unwrapped prior to having sex to save time and aggrivation or have your partner put the condom on for you. Your partner could slip is on right after she gives your oral sex or while jerking you. Might be a good option in keeping your hard.

In reply to: if you are struggling getting it on you might want to try a larger size. If your girth is 5" or above, magnums should work nice for you. What is a magnum? I have had the same problem as our buddy here, my girth is 5". It never occured to me the problem was the comparative size of the condom and my dick.

It's a condom made my Trojan. It's a larger girth condom, been a blessing for me since I found them. My girth is a little over 6" and trying to use a normal condom was always a pain and actually hurt. Until I found the magnums I never wanted to even worry about intercourse because the discomfort took away from the pleasure.