Ok... This is kinda awkward. Might come out kinda long to.Ok, I started dating a girl 4 days ago. We have been friends for about 8-9 months, and she has openly liked me the whole time, the chemistry kinda went both ways about 2 weeks ago so I made it happen and now we are dating, but its one of those love type deals, not a highschool date yea, I want this to be "the one" because thats how I feel, and how she has felt for 9 months.Anyways, I've had 7 girlfriends in my life, most over a month. I've done sexual acts with 3 different girls, and countless times with one, preaty much done it all, and am very comfortable around the other sex, and preaty confident.this isnt a sexual question, well... indirectly I guess it isAnyways, all that being said, this is where it is awkward.Its not really a "problem" so to say, but it is in public places and such, and the fact we JUST started dating. I want it to go SLOW so it last LONG, I know easy come easy go, been there done that.But, anyways, the problem is. When we hold hands, yes hold hands I get an erection, thinking about it for some reason starts it up... She isnt Tara Reed or anything... Its REDICULOUS, I mean, we went to the movies together, and we held hands and I rubbed her hands and such I have more expeirence then her, alot more and stuff yea boyfriend/girlfriend hand play, anyways. Nothing sexual, just hands, but, I preaty much had a standing erection the whole movie... at work when we come in contact it starts up after like 20 seconds of contact...I beleive it may be because I am 18 years old, preaty much at the peak of my hormone level, but.. I've never felt like this before.I feel kind of uncomfortable because of it, its uncontrollable, never had this problem before..I guess I'm here for re-assurance, but advice would be nice to.Anyone else have/had this problem?Its not really a problem.. just lack of words so it is.Hope I got it all out right
I have a little problem here
Yeah, sometimes the big guy down stairs just doesn't want to listen. He's popped up in inconvenient situations plenty of times. That's when I have to stop and concentrate on calming him down. Don't know how to explain it really. I just kinda have a mental talk with my buddy down there until I'm back in control of things and he stands down. But, I can say that it's completely normal. Especially since your at your sexual peak.