So, you guys have probably read it all and hopefully you can give me some good advice! Basically I am pretty normal all around except I have a strange vagina. My labia seems longer than a normal girl's and I'm very self conscious about it. I've been touched before by a past boyfriend, and he asked 'what's that?' and ever since then I've been weirded out. Now, with my current boyfriend, I won't let him come near my pants because I'm scared he'll be disgusted! He's had way more experience than me (he's not a virgin). So should I give a disclaimer, like 'oh hey i have a long labia' or should i keep quiet and let him... discover himself? if i should give a disclaimer, what should i say??
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TRUE DILEMMA
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Long labia are actually quite common. But if you can tell your bf beforehand, you'll feel more relaxed when he goes down there, so that would be good.
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My labia are actually uneven in length, but my boyfriend doesn't care at all. I never said anything about it, but earlier in the relationship, I did say that one of my nipples had a freckle on it before he saw my breasts the first time. He thought it was cute and it really took the worry off of my shoulders since I was really self-concious about it. After he reacted so well to my freckle, I never felt the need to mention how I was uneven, I just figured he'd accept me.I hope things go well.
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whew. thanks. any other sugestions?
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hey girl. I've got a long labia too. Never told my boyfriend. Actually I don't even think about it when he's down there. :laughing: My mind is someplace else then.
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my gf has a realy long liba too and as far as im conserned its just a big sheth for my long sword
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HAHAHA the post above me made me laugh, its normal to have a long labia, my past GF had one, but I didn't care, as long as we were both confortable with each other, we were perfectly fine. If you feel it is more better to tell him do it rather than for him to think "WTF is that down there" and then find out later its the Labia, but its longer than other girls, its a common thing.