Man..I thought I had let this place go :smirk: Well..it all started like 6 years ago..I met this girl who really liked me. We totally hit it off as friends but I never thought of her as more. We became really close throughout the years and we finally dated 2 or 3 years ago. I just never could "love" her and we were on and off for a while. The most recent time we dated for a year straight...I would always think to myself: You couldn't have found the right girl at the age of 18.. So I wouldn't try very hard, and I could be kind of mean. We had a mutual breakup about 2 or 3 weeks ago. I've been out on the scene, hanging out with girls and whatnot..but I feel like I've left the one thing in the world that I cared about behind. I asked her to take me back, but she wants to see what else is out there :frowning: I really don't know what to do..I'm so sad and brokenhearted that I really haven't been eating too much and my mood has changed. I was captain of two Varsity sports in highschool..I never had trouble with confidence...suddenly it's all gone! I feel as though I'm on a rollercoaster..I'll go a few hours just miserable, then for an hour or two I'm totally fine and my old self. The only real person I can talk to about this is my ex..but I feel like everytime I talk to her it's just a pity party and I don't want her to feel sorry for her. Bah..I've just lost my confidence, I can't have fun anymore :frowning: I don't know what I'm getting out..just any help would be great! thanks y'al..
Winger
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Letting myself go..
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Welcome back, Winger!This is a hard one, because I know how you feel. The conventional advice is that if you don't love her, don't do it. I'm not sure, myself, that being in love is essential for a good relationship; however there is still much to be said for the conventional advice. You shouldn't be with her on false pretenses. I think you should see what else is out there, as she is.But it's hard to lose the one person you can say everything to.
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Sometimes you think you know that a girl wants to stay with you, but people change, its the way of life, she started to see other things that you might not have liked. But you learn from these relationships, I know this because I just went through a break up yesterday, and I haven't been ok since.