Well to say they have no rights is bullshit, if thats what you read in what I said then you misread or I mistyped my thoughts, everyone should have some rights. Certainly taking down the door to ftake away any privacy, is over the top as well. To say that he can not polish his priest or do the five knuckle shuffle is wrong as well, but I stil think that the parents have the final say on whats allowed in thier house.
there has to be some level of compramise. If Im paying ht bills, paying hte net hook up, and the elctricity to run it and the house its in and the computer its on, I have some say over what my kids view while online.
It maybe the familys home, but its governd by the parents.
i prefer my life now as to when it was that i was a child, but responsability, the bills, the meals, the clothes for the kids, its a hell of a lot harder now then it was as a child when i did what i wanted and any money I got could go for what ever i wanted it to go for. When your a parent your responsible for the childs welfare, you may not be th best parent but you do what you can to be the best parent you can be for your child and keep them from harm.
Some parents think R rate movies and violence should be kept form teh children, Iv taken my kids even at younger ages then they are now to see movies that alot of parents would shit over. Its my choice to allow my kids to see what I deem ok. It his mothers right, to determine what her child is allowed to view, and allowed to participate in.
I made my views despite what the law says, it simply how I feel.
Your a tech savy guy, Im sure youv read all th "rules" for children using computers, keep it in a common area of hte home, know what they are viewing adn who they are talking to, all of those rules ?
You may choose to not abide by them, but you cant argue that they are not a good guideline for familys to follow, they make sense, then its all a matter of the parent deciding what they believe thier child to be capable of handling. The more mature the child shows them selves to be, the more responsability and freedom you can grant the child.
The most important thing that i think reflected in my mind as wel as my post is that "I hate my mom"
That statement pisses me off to no end, hate your own mother because of a small incident?
I can fully understand and evfen would expect to be pissed at her, but hate her? and call her a backstabber?
Those are words that have real meaning, if a child of mine told me that shit, Id put him over my knee and paddle his ass till he couldnt sit down.
I concede some of what shes done or threatnd to do is over the line, but for the most part, she has the right to do it.
I also know you dont need a computer to jerk it. Im old enough to remember that there was no net not so long ago.
I still jerked off every chance i had, hell sometimes i had no video, no books, only my imagination, and I got along just fine.
I had to share a bedroom, til I was about 13, with my younger brother. i still had plenty of time to wack it in the shower, on the toilet, any other place I found some time and privacy. I know it can be done.
Not having a computer in your bedroom, is not the end of the world, shit it shouldnt even have a bearing on being happy, let alone determining hatred for the woman who gave you birth and has packed your ass thru life for all these years.
Some parents do deserve th hatred, those that abuse, molest, and dont give a shit about thier children. Anyone tryig to do th right job and that loves thier kids and isnt knocking the dog sht out of them or touching thier naughty bit, deserves some slack in makig mistakes and trying ot bring the kid up to be what they think is right.