well.....i just had sex a little while ago in my pool with a guy i don't really know that well and now i'm afraid he's going to go tell all of his friends and that sucks. I guess there's not really a question in this post, but i just wanted to post....i think i might be a little drunk, but, oh well
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Bad choice?
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Sounds like life to me. Mistakes, consequences... learn from them. I hope he didn't have any STDs.
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Yea, having sex with someone you dont really know or love was a bad choice. He probally didnt wear a condom eather so I would get tested for STD's.
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Did you make a similar mistake with your boyfriend in May?
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It was different with my bf last year. The guy i hooked up with in the pool was someone i just met the night before. I recently started hanging out with all his friends and I guess stuff happens. But, last night I got extremely drunk and had sex with him again. All summer i've been lying and going behind my parent's backs and doing all kinds of bad stuff. (drinking, smoking pot, sex) I'm kind of torn right now: I know I should quit behaving like this, but, also...I guess I like going out and doing stuff like that because it's fun and I can forget about everything else. But, then I feel really guilty and everything afterwards. I really don't know what to do. I need to stop..but, i think that's probably easier said than done. I used to cut and lately I've really been wanting to...I guess going out and partying basically accomplishes the same thing and that's helping me get my mind off of feeling sad or whatever. Anyway, any advice would be greatly appreciated..thanks