I just started dating this guy and things are moving along pretty quickly. Will he be totally turned off if I let him know when to slow down? I guess it's also worth noting that I'm 19 and he's 28 - I can't figure out if that's even right or not...any thoughts? And also, I've heard so many different things now, and I want to know what is the best way for a girl to give a guy head - what gives the most pleasure?? How long after you've started dating do guys expect you to go down on him?
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How long after you've started dating do guys expect you to go down on him?
Hmm... for me.. that would be... NEVER!! I don't like it when guys want girls to do that stuff for them, and then pressure them into doing it by making them feel guilty. (lol, and this is coming from a male...I'm not a typical-male :laughing: so I guess that's why)
If he is moving too quickly for you, then tell him to slow down. If he doesn't want to, then end it there. Don't go out with someone who doesn't respect your needs.
It should be fun and comfortable for both parties. If it is not stop. If he doesnt like it, it is not your fault.
Never wait a certain time to go down on him. Do it when your ready and hes ready. Knowing that he is 28 makes me wanna say he is ready for it. But since your 19 im not sure since im not a girl. But im pretty sure u know when your ready to commit to sexual play.