me and my boyfriend have been goin out for over 2 and a half years. i was 15 at the time and now im 18. Anyways, these past few months seem to be difficult at times with him. just a few weeks ago i met this incredibly amazing guy...only bad thing...i havent actually met him in person. he has a webcam so i know that hes not some pedofile or anything lol. (ive only been in one other serious relationship in the past for about 2 months, so im not a slut or anything!!) he plans on coming in next summer and he has really strong feelings for me. i dont know what to do!!!! should i just stay with my previous boyfriend? or give this other guy a chance? please dont say anything to harsh to me...i find it hard enough now. its just that, im still only young, and just thinking of settling down at this age really scares me, and i dont know what to do anymore...please help!!!
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So confused. another guy?!?!?!
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I say jump for it, if he is there to stay. You do have a problem and I know you're asking us to be incharge of the problem but it's still your own opinion. We shouldn't deciede something like this for you.
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There's the story of a dog...he's going across a bridge to go dig for bones in the field on the other side. He finally finds one after digging all day and heads for home. On his way back across the bridge, he sees this other dog in the water and wants his bone too...so he goes to grab it. But of course, the bone in his mouth drops into the water and now he has none. Something to think about.Something else to consider is what kind of feelings you have. Feelings of butterflies and excitement fade after a time...then you're left with what the person truly is and truly means to you. You might lose a good guy just to have some excitement for awhile. Maybe excitement is what's most important to you right now, though. Just some things to think about.
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well yeah i know its my own opinion, but still i just wanted to see what other people would think if they were a situation like this. maybe ill go on a date or sumthing with him, just to see what hes like. i know i cant base a relationship on just a date, but i can see what happens from there... thanx tho^_^
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yeah i know exactly what you mean hunn...im just so confused about it..and scared really. but thanx for your comment.
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Well I would have to say leave your boyfriend right now because if you have feelings for other guys that isn't really love. Plus your boyfriend is problaly thinking serious since its been such a long time and your not that would really hurt, but it would be better. I think your boyfriend deserves somebody better someone that would stand by his side no matter what. In the end you make the choice hope you don't regret it.
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ouch...its not that he needs anyone better...we have just been argueing a little lately. i still love him and he loves me...im happy, but i just dont know if i want to stay like this forever. but thanx anyways.