As you know in my former post:http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB14&Number=323757&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1My great loving mother ruined a good relationship with a girl I cared about, IN ONE NIGHT, by telling her I had sex with another girl (Who is 13....) and I did no such thing.But to the post:I have been going through a lot lately and I have found out that my EX-Girlfriend's friend really likes me, and I have no idea why, but what should I do? Should I hold off for a while since I am going through a rough break up or should I just go out with her? Would it be bad to date, MY EX's best friend? Should the girl get permission from the other one? I have no idea!!!!! And now my EX has completely changed, I don't even know her anymore, its amazing, because she called me and was acting different, and I didn't know who it was.So let me shorten down for you:Option One:Stay single for a while and just lay backOption Two:Date my Ex-girlfriend's friend? And be happy and not make mistakes again. And give this girl a chance?Option Three:Do nothing about it and ignore the both of them?
Wait a while?
Honestly? I'd just leave it to be fair, like you said you're going through a rough time, so best leave any other complications out of it.
AND if my ex went out with one of my girlfriends, it would be so horrible. I think it would be really uncomfortable for all three of you
I assume your ex doesn't know about her mates liking for you....? If something were to happen between the two of you it may disrupt their friendship.
I personally know of a similar situation and it has seriously affected the social life they had before hand. They've lost friends due to something of the same nature.
So to sum up: Best leave it be :smile:
I see, but I think my Ex knows that her friend likes me, and to beat it all, a lot of my Ex's friends like me, I feel so uncomfortable around them sometimes and they just won't stop flirting with me, I mean it feels good to be single and all, but JEZZ lay off of me. It feels good to have girls all over you, but it just makes me feel weird that its my Ex's friends. Would you think they would be trying to get with me so I would loose the friendship I have left with my Ex?
Hmmm I dunno, maybe they have like this jealousy thing of her, like, they were kinda jealous when you two were goin out, and now you're availabe, they wanna take their chance. I've always believed that dating your ex's friends is ground you do not trespass on. No no. But yeah why would they wanna disrupt any friendship you and your ex still have ?? If they do then they are not much of a friend to her and makes them look like a shitty person anyways
my oppinion? dateing ur friends ex-bf is totaly out of bounds, as i guess is dateing ur exs friends.id say b single 4 abit, u need to get ova this relationship and get used to being by urself 1st. dont bcome relationship dependent. u cant really give ur new chick a fair go if ur still hung up or have 2 much baggage fromm ur last relationship.