Beginning to date.

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I realized that I tore myself away from the female race, focused on my career; but now I want to share my things with someone. Damned lonliness.I have no clue what to do, what to say, what do wear etc.I completed step 1 and found someone i really like But she is waaaay to pretty for me to talk to. I have 9 days to complete this. Can anyone help?

Step 1...understand that there is no girl too pretty in spite of what your gut might tell you. She is just a girl.

Whats step 2?

Just walk up to her and say hello, start little conversations with her. Tease her (not about her body) do it while smiling. Comment on her shirt. Ask for her opinions (a lot).Do whatever man.

I could try, but she is always with her 2 guy friends. She stares at me alot in class, but when we make eye contact we both look away. Why's that?

1. Be nice2. Be excellent3. Be goneIn other words, make a good impression, then get out of there. Let her think about you for awhile before talking to her again.

It's better if she is with guy friends because that shows that you have confidence. The whole eye contact thing is like "pussy-flirting". Actually, it's not even flirting, it's just things people do. Next time that happens, if you remember, smile. Show that you're sweet but don't be a cuddle bitch. Last thing you want to be is a cuddle bitch.

Hmm, she does stare at me alot. Should i smile and see if she smiles back? If she does what would i have to do? Damn complex females.

It's a casual thing, don't think about it to much. Smile, if she smiles back good for you, go back to your work.

But then how can i give a sign that i like her, without others noticing? I really do like her! But im really afraid to ask her

Don't jump the gun like that. First just talk to her, just casual talking. Ask her opinion on stuff and then just ask her to go out and get a drink.

How, the class is like 3 hours long. If i could find some way maybe. Damn her for her nymphly beauty!

I was not talking about during class

after reading over ths thread I can tell you that step two is to grow some balls.
You have no cinfidence in yourself, you dont feel like your good enough to be wiht her.
So long as you have that in your head, step two is to get it. If you dont, youll never have anyone WORTH having.

I wish confidence came in pill form!There is no good timing for me to ask her. She is too " out of my league" I truly am suprised why she is not a model!

Keep thinking that someone is out of your league and youll be living a shitty life with common gutter whores and crack heads.Confidnece is better then pill form, it comes from with in.Devlope it and mine it from yourself.You seem to think your pretty hot shit on guitar, thats an ability, having abilities creats confidence in ones self. hit the gym, wrk out some, test yourself, smaller at first then get bigger as you meet goals. Im overflowing with confidence, i piss it out in liquid form. I do shit jsut to see if i can do it, never thinking that its impossible to achieve.i set new goals, meet them and set higher ones, its been 35 years to work me up to this level. Iv picked up girls in grocery stores, wal-mart, walking down the streetf. go after them when you see them, it maybe the only chance you ever get with them.confidence comes from finding that your good enough to meet and exceed goals.The goals dont matter, it could be learning something, winning a fight, climbing a mountain, farting the entire theme to jaws, what ever it doesnt matter. as confidence grows the goals become harder. I know that there is no woman who are out of my league, all though there are several who have to much class to associate with the likes of me.Luckily, I just think they are stuck up cunts and never let it bother me.

Theres nothing wrong with crackwhores Thanks for the confidence lesson lol! Do you have advice how i can get her attention? or anything the can possibly lead us togheter in the future? Anyway to be her friend even. She is funny, not girl funny either! Guy funny! It's why shes funny!

Jump up and down and point at your cockBut fo' realizzle you should could just like drop a book or something in front of her, compliment her shirt or start a conversation on her shirt then just branch it off from there.

Lol! This isn't the 70's anymore. I think its considered harassment if she is wearing a skirt It's been on going looking at each other for days, both of us don't have enough balls to say we like each other or talk to each other. What a world we live in!

Well, just do it. I'm serious, what the fuck do you expect us to do? For asking advice on a problem you are asking us to take charge in this segment of your life, that you cannot go through by yourself and you need help. We can't help you at this point (well give you good advice). Quit being such a douchebag and just talk to her. "Slide"