Beginning to date.

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It was still in the hall ways? lol

Dude that is one of the stupidest reasons for getting in trouble.

I know!! I had to wait in the office, and i missed my bus!Oh well, my friend knows her, so he might set us up. the favours have turned to me!

Just curious... why 9 days??!

She is going somewere on Vacation i think, in 7 days on morrow. Plus, we do go to different schools, we are just in Extra-credit sumemr school classo together. It's so you can get into university easier. I know nothing about her other than how she looks and she is the same age as me.

I would tell go tell them to fuck themselves and leave. I hate the thought of punishment in school.Just ask her out.

This is what I would do. Try to leave class about the same time she does to where you two would be walking down the hall next to each other then say,

"I was wondering if you could help me. I think I have a stalker. There's this girl in my class that has *start describing her so she knows it's her*. Anyway, she keeps glancing at me during class. She's cute, but she could be a stalker and that's just setting myself up for trouble. What do you think I should do?"

You've just used a few techniques here. First is you've set up a conversation that is playful and light hearted. If she's somewhat interested she's smile and play right along, continuing to talk with you about the situation in 3rd person. Second, is you complimented her but took it back. Attractive girls like to be complimented but they hear it all the time, so you have to change it up a little bit.

Since you've got some confidence issues, pretend like you're someone else. You're not you, you're the man and all the ladies want you. If she doesn't want you, there's one nearby that does. So it's no big deal.

Having this attitude does a few things. It adds confidence, it makes it seem like you're not trying all that hard so it comes off as natural, and it alleviates a lot of the scared feelings.

Also, think of this as practice. It's not a test. It's practice! Why is it practice? Because no matter what happens you'll come out gaining something out of it. You'll know what worked, what didn't work, you'll find out what you need to work on, etc etc. Remember, you can't fail at practice.

Do you see now why you're the sex god? You crazy sex god asian! Um, but the stalker is her lol, so this changes alot of things

Is that line from Vanilla Sky?

I think she's the saddest girl to ever hold a martini.

I love that movie. I think it is my favorite movie, next to Fight Club. "Without the bitter the sweet isn't as sweet"

I'm assuming Vanilla Sky is a movie. Never seen it.

In reply to: Um, but the stalker is her lol, so this changes alot of things That's exactly what you're telling her. Basically, in a playful way, you're saying "are you stalking me?" If you came right out and asked then she might take it the wrong way. But if you approach it with a third person view she she should know you're playing around with her. If she doesn't know you're playing with her, then she's might not be the sharpest tool in the shed. I've ran into a few of those kinds of girls.

Damn it! That means i would have had a good chance today. I must pass her 2 defensive turrets taht surround her like a shithawk!

I blame this all on my shyness! K i sit opposite of her, she in the furthers away from me. It's face to face thing. How can i possible even bring up a convo with her? Don't forget I'm shy! Just doesn't seem like it. Think Sex God think!!

lol. Your shyness is the problem buddy. You need to pretend like your someone else. You're not you when you're talking to her.I tend to stare at girls on purpose to see if they look. If they do look, I just give them a smirk and continue to keep eye contact. I let them break eye contact, or once in a great while they'll come over and find out what you're looking at. haha. I always get amused when a girl has the guts to approach me. Brownie points for her already.

I know, I'll act like a Naked Rockstar!! Will that break my shyness?Or a cheap pornstar?I'll try that eye-contact thing, usually i am the one to break it or her.

Act like you're Alex Hitchens from "Hitch". Someone smooth like that.

It sounds weird to pretend to be someone else. Just think "slide" I'm serious. It works wonders for me.

Sounds...sexy? So, whats the next part of the plan?

Actually no, fuck what I just said. You shouldn't put yourself in a different place. Live for the moment. Just do it.