In school I have no friends nobody likes me because of rumors and they won't give me a chance I have no friends at all I'm young and I'm afraid I'll never find friends in the summer I am alone without people my own age nobody in school will give me a chance!
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I have absolutely no friends
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do you meet kids outside of school? like at a mall or church or somin? I know its tuff cause I had one year in school when noone liked me but it blew over and later some of those same kids became my friends. just remember its not your fault, kids are like that.
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You may find summer gives you an excellent chance to find friends outside the closed little world of school. Go out and do things where other people your age might go.What sort of rumours do you suffer from?
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I've had bad experiences with rumours. A few years ago a girl got drunk on the schoolbus home (don't bother asking how) and I walked her home. I came in the next day and there were rumours flying around the place that I had taken advantage of her, some people even called me a rapist. I had no friends for a good few months and only a handful after that for a few years. But with time it all blew over and I don't have a problem with anyone now, its all in the past and I've got a good selection of friends.These things take time but you won't be alone forever, if you just keep making the effort then people will come around and see what kind of person you are. Some will like you, some won't, but you will make friends eventually.
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Sweetie, some people spread rumors just because they know it'll hurt someone in some way. There is nothing you can do to stop that, believe me I know, I've been in your shoes. I had many rumors spread about my during my school years... I was accused of being a lesbian, of being pregnant, or sleeping with a teacher, and many other things. You just have to keep your head held high and pretend those things don't bother you, and you just have to show those people that you're not what everyone is gossiping about. You can't just expect to have friends immediatly, it's not that easy. You have to show people who you are on the inside, what kind of person you really and truely are and then you'll start to gain friendships. Keep your chin up sweetie, things will get better, and don't allow these rumors to get you down.
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I don't know what you want us to do about it. I suggest you start becoming social. You could start by saying hello to people and starting small conversations.
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yea what kind of rumors do you suffer from? When i was in the 4th grade i was always the stinky kid in class not because i didn't shower, but because i had really bad gas lol no one would be my friend. yea like the others mentioned, just try and me be social and talk to your kids at school, and if that does not work try and find friends outside of school, like at malls, or arcades, or perhaps join a sports team.
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I've had some funny rumors, about me being a pothead.
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Heh, I had that one as well! XD I was the kind of person that got along with everyone. I had friends from all types of backgrounds... and believe me, some were deff. stoners. Since I hung around with them, I guess people assumed I smoked pot too... but I didn't, not my style.
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People have to look past rumors and not care what other people say. If YOU dont care what they are, then other people wont care, that means you gain more confidence and gaining more confidence means more people will talk to you.Try going into different clubs, or if you sit next to anyone in class, try talking and gettting to know them, i did that in my maths class and now the girl is one of my best friends If people are shallow enough to spred and make up rumors then ther not worth it, trying going into after school clubs, things u enjoy and u will soon makes friends. Promise