basically, i wanna ask out this girl, but we're good mates, and i dont know what to say to her because if i say something like do you wanna do whatever on saturday, it will just sound like im jus askin her if she wants to hang out, which we do all the time, so what can i say to make it clear im asking her out?
Same thing happened with me. What I ended up doing was going to the pub with her, getting rat-arsed and then ending up telling her I liked her. Bad idea.But it sort of worked for me since it has strengthened our friends relationship rather than diminishing it. She does get on with her BF but I don't give a shit. I am a right bastard!I do however use every opportunity to point out I would love to give her a poke with my pork sword, but it doesn't matter. I think we are as close as we could be without actually being a couple. Sorry mate got side-tracked a little bit.What you need to do is work out whether you think you could be anything more than friends. If yes then just tell her you like her use a line like "I would like to be more than friends" or something.Since you are already friends and just going out would not be a date then going for a smoochie at tactical opportunities would not be appropriate and you will get all the "what the fuck are you doing" -slap, embarrassing in front of loads of people.No other way you can do it, just tell her but do it at a good moment.Remember, if you don't go for it then you will always kick yourself.Mr. Nuts