Wow, i fucked myself over... again

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So I met this chick about a year ago (i'm 16, shes 15)... I didnt really notice her until a few months ago, so I started talking to her, we eventually met up in person. We started flurting and eventually that same night we did stuff, but only like making out... I went home that night, kinda satisfied and looking forward where I could go with this. The next night we hung out again, i felt she was alot more distant for some reason, but when i was leaving I still ended up getting a kiss. Then we didnt hang out for a few more days, and when i did, she was REALLY distant, like she didnt even want to hug me when I was leaving (witch is weird to me cuz i hug every chick i know). So I started to get really confused, my friend called me a sucker and said I'm gonna get too into her, but I dont think that was it. Last night we hung out, she was SO distant I couldnt take it anymore and talked to her about it. I asked why isnt stuff the way it was before, she said that she knew that we were pretty good friend and didnt wanna lead me on (even tho she did) and that she didnt wanna fuck up our friendship because I am a "nice guy"... I kinda think thats BS, cuz most chicks would rather make up some shit than tell me the truth. Now, the talk we had yesturday... was the MOST AKWARD and horrible thing ever, yet that still makes me want to call her. Theres just something about her... But what I dont understand, why the hell do chicks do this..? Do they like to fuck with my head? I'm that kind of person where I take things too seriously but end up not caring. But with this one, I cant stop caring. I just dont understand why she would stop and not like me anymore...? Why dose it have to be this way, if anyone has an answer, I'd love to hear it.

Thanks for your time..

Okay, she was wrong to lead you on in the first place, but to be honest, she has realised that what she did was wrong and has explained to you why she isn't so toucy-feely with you anymore. She said she wants to keep it as a friendship. I think it's clear that she doesn't want anything more than that so you should just try and accept that. I know what that feels like so I know it's not easy. But if she doesn't want anything more there is not much you can do about it to be fair. Also, I don't get why you think her tellin you that she doesn't wanna ruin your relationship is BS, why can't that be the truth????? Not everyone has to lie.

Well, I just dont get how people can change so fast, like it went form 'her wanting me' to 'her not wanting me' in like 6 days.

I think its bs because she also said something els I forgot to meantion "i already have enough guys on the side, and you're too good of a friend for me to lead you on" or something like that. So I guess I and everyone els can call her a skank because she somewhat is one.

I know, I need to accept it, but after that whole open talk its kinda weird but yet I still have urges to call her.. so I donno I guess its weird between us. I dont know how I'll resist if I hang out with her, its defenetly something new. I've never really wanted a close "friend" before in that way.

It just bums me out that it had to be this way.. *sigh*

I think she is telling the truth. You just need to cool it down and go with the flow. If it was meant to be, then it's meant to be.

Yeah, you're probally right. I think I'm already over it, I'm feeling 10x better. Screw that skank...I guess the last thing that's kinda bugging me I'm gonna have to start fresh, I put a whole 2 weeks of work into her, for nothing. I kinda want my 2 weeks back since they weren't worth it... hehe

Yeah, you're probally right. I think I'm already over it, I'm feeling 10x better. Screw that skank...umm that's not nice to say>I guess the last thing that's kinda bugging me I'm gonna have to start fresh, I put a whole 2 weeks of work into her, for nothing. I kinda want my 2 weeks back since they weren't worth it... heheagain, that's not nice. Seems like all you wanted was a piece of ass. Well in that case if you did, then good for that girl to lead you on like that. Maybe you shouldn't just be looking for a piece of ass

I've been in that position before. A while back I took this girl on a date, she seemed to dig me, and we made out whatever, she seemed to want a relationship so we became girlfriend and boyfriend. Three weeks later, she dumps me saying she just didn't want to lead me on. WTF? I was so mad, I could have punched her in the face, and I don't hit girls

again, that's not nice. Seems like all you wanted was a piece of ass. Well in that case if you did, then good for that girl to lead you on like that. Maybe you shouldn't just be looking for a piece of ass I think she was the one looking for a peice of ass. Considering she was the one who "dumped" me. I hate situations like this.

I think she was the one looking for a peice of ass. Considering she was the one who "dumped" me. I hate situations like this. Then just think of it as a learning experience. You're what, 16? You'll find more girls and well now you will know what to do if this happens again.

wow dude.. that made me laugh.. my boyfriend sounds exactly like you. yeah.. girls are just weird sometimes and it's hard to explain why we do what we do. only we understand. but yes, it's good to talk about it with her.. and i guess you just have to take what she said and stay friends with her. maybe if you don't seem so clingy to her, she'll want you more. the "want what you can't have" scenario. and you say there is something about her.. so go with your instinct and hang out with her more and something might be there. and maybe the girl might realize this. it was just funny though because my boyfriend said i fuck with his head because i'm distant and weird sometimes and i never call him.. stupid stuff like that. haha. anyways. good luck.

Yeah, ignoring her works.Wow, shes kinda like my dog LOL. If i ignore him, he wants my attention, if I play with him he gets bored.I guess I just dont like distant people.

u shud turn your first post into a rap