Well.... Met a girl two and a half years ago (mid sophomore year).. talked for a few months as friends. Like the old classic stories.. I started falling for her.... and as I can see it now she did also (I ignored my friends when they were telling me it then). I never actually did anything then for fear of what it would do to our friendship. After about more than a year(towards end of junior year) we just stopped talking, so the friendship died with me not doing anything either way. We just stopped talking less and less.. until we were just another kid to eachother in the school. This, to be honest hurt me. Now a year later, highschool just finished, we never talked since then. I may never actually see her again now, but I can't stop thinking of her and what she's like and the time spent with her. I have a way of contacting her, which may no longer be viable in 2-3 months, with her phone number.. but.. Im contemplating if I should call her or not? Do you think it would be worth to try and build up a relationship again after not talking for over a year? Would it be possible to get our feelings towards eachother the same? If it does turn out to calling her... How do I start it off after not talking to her for so long? What do I tell her? etc..
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What to do.. what to do..
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I think you should go for it. Give her a call. Just say, "Hey, this is fill in name. Remember me?" pause. Depending on what she says respond and if you need to eventually move on to why you called "I found your number shuffling through some old stuff and thought I'd give you a call."Or, better yet, try to find her myspace and start talking to her on there. It's easier to break the ice using things online.
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I agree, but tell her some truth you know like talk to her and tell her you miss those good times that you and her were friends. People like that knowing that they aren't forgotten. I have rebuild to friendships and I am glad I did it so you got my approval.
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In reply to: Or, better yet, try to find her myspace and start talking to her on there. It's easier to break the ice using things online. Trust me.. she doesn't have a myspace,lol. In reply to: I have rebuild to friendships and I am glad I did it so you got my approval. yea I can imagine, I regret letting this friendship die.. the one thing I was trying to avoid by not letting her know my true feelings, still happened, because I never did let her know the truth. because of this I was nervous a lot around her always thinking of my true feelings around her, etc.Any other comments/ any more information needed?