1-I read some guy saying he liked it when his GF took some ice cubes in her mouth before sucking him (she sucked his without them in her mouth, of course). Have any guys experienced that thing? Did that feel good?2-Do many guys enjoy prostate stimulation? Are there many that don't? How do I bring that up with my boyfriend?
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BJ ideas
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I love your avatar... It’s cute…I believe that the ice cube thing can be erotic and stimulating because of the drastic temperature change from hot and wet to cold and wet back to hot and wet. It’s unexpected and can be very arousing. As far as prostate stimulation... Each guy is different. Some men like it, some don’t. Most men have never experienced any anal sexual pleasure. Most men are afraid to even try anal sex for fear that they might enjoy it. Most men think trying anything sexual in the anal region would be “Gay”… LOLIf you really want to see if he likes it, I would suggest that you try it maybe from a 69 position with him on top. That way he is on all fours. While you’re blowing him take your middle finger covered with a lot of spit or lube and just lightly rub in a gentle circular motion, his little pink asshole. As you feel his asshole contract and release from the direct stimulation and when you go down on him hard and deep insert just the tip of your finger inside his ass. Do this at the same motion as your blow job. As you go down on him insert your finger. You will feel him loosen up as you continue to stimulate his anus.... His prostate will be about 2 or 3 inches inside his rectum. It will feel kinda hard. Just lightly touch it every time you go down on him. It should send him over the edge and he’ll shoot a huge load. So be prepared. I would also recommend using a latex glove if you have finger nails. Finger nails in the ass hurt and are hard to clean if his kitty isn’t clean Good luck and I hope it works for both of you. Open his door to the sexual exploring his body should experience and how good someone can make him feel sexually . There are many, many nerve ending in the anus that really like being stimulated during sex…Let us know how it went.
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Thank you, I'll try that. I think/hope he won't mind .Additional responses will be appreciated, especially from straight guys since Roc said some of them thought this practise made them 'gay'. P.S. Bear avatars rock!
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Believe me, as long as you're gentle, he won't mind! You've already received some great advice, and there's not much I can add...only to say my first girlfriend used to do that to me and it sent me through the roof! I would say, however, that it probably isn't necessary to worry about where the prostate is the first time because you're likely to hit it and it will be such a pleasant surprise, searching might be more than is needed.
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Thank you. I can't wait to get some privacy with him and try it all out (we both live with our parents).
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Thank you. I can't wait to get some privacy with him and try it all out (we both live with our parents).
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Glad to be of assistance. Oh, and one more thing: be sure your finger is properly lubed when you do it, otherwise you might be using more force than is necessary to get in as--unless he knows you're going to do it--he won't be expecting it. If you're in a situation where you both can be naked, you might try lubing up with your own juices while blowing him--either knowing you're rubbing yourself or seeing you rub yourself will likely double his arousal...then when you give him the finger (so to speak) he'll hit the ceiling.And I forgot to answer your question about ice in the mouth. I can't speak for other guys, but to me "cold" equates to "shrinkage". Personally, there is (almost) nothing so pleasant to me as when the head of my cock reaches the warm spot in the back of a woman's mouth; it's really like entering another world. The mouth may be warm, but the back of the mouth toward the throat seems to be about 20 degrees warmer....but maybe that's just my interpretation
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Sorry to be reviving a *relatively* old thread. Just wanted to tell you how that thing went for me.
I did get into his butt without much trouble, but I don't know if I hit the prostate. I did hear him gasp (hope, it was not with pain :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: - I suppose he would have told me). I didn't feel any 'chestnut-shaped' area, so I just massaged the zone that felt firmer than the rest... Was that it? -
My gf was having an ice cream and thought it was a fun idea to give me a bj. It felt strange but it was too cold for me :grin: but its fun to try.
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Likely you got it. If he's lying on his back you'll have to crook your finger "up" toward his belly to hit it, again, 2-3 inches in. If he's on top of you in a 69 (always recommended by me, personally), you'll have to crook your finger down, obviously. It probably shocked him the first time, but I guarantee if he hasn't said anything about it, he will. You may want to hold it back the next time or two to see if he asks for it...or just play around his anus and see if he starts squirming to get your finger in.Personally, I think it's incredible! Best of luck to you!
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/Not reviving an old thread for nothing - I have an update /Yeah, you were right. That first time I did that he said it was ok. The next couple of times we didn't have much time so I didn't touch his butt. But today I was giving him a blowjob and he actually asked me to play with his ass!!! Like, I was so surprized. And he moaned out of this world... I think, my boyfriend likes anal play. Thanks for your advice.
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your lucky. i tried it with my bf and he doesnt like it :frowning: maybe its just me... he just feels uncomfortable with it..
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Glad it all worked out! It is a great addition to any sexual encounter, but not for eveyone, I guess. And it works almost as well for women as for men, likely because of the number of nerve endings...and possibly because of it's proximity to the opening to the vagina.
Best of luck in all future encounters :grin:
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That's too bad....but he's young so he may just be uncertain about the exeprience and if it should make him question his sexuality. It shouldn't--at all--but that's something every guy has to come to grips with--so to speak--in their own time.
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yeah i guess so hey? i hope he wants to try it sooner or later...im curious over it