Im having a problem that I need some female and male help with. My gf is 19 and I am 27, and she has slept with 16 men for her young age of 19. Now to me thats alot of men for someone her age to have slept with. I am very attracted to her but every time I go to be sexual with her I think about her other men that she has had inside of her condom and all, and it grosses me out. She told me that she used to be kind of slutty because she was sexually abused as a child. Thats alot of mental stress to handle as is... I feel like just a number to her even though in reality Im not. She told me that her last partner had a really big penis girth wise-like a pickle. Now, I would consider myself above average on length and girth but I by no means have a monster penis or the same girth as a pickle. I have heard that vaginas really dont stretch out that much unless you have kids and even though he might have had a pickle like penis I dont know if that could stretch her out in 7 times of sex. Could he have? What makes a girl loose? I can fit 4 fingers inside of her easy after she gets wet. I am attracted to her BUT, alot of the time I lose interest in her sexually because she really isnt the tightest Ive had. This really bothers me. I went from feeling totally confident with myself to always doubting myself and my penis girth, due to this new information about her ex bf. I am trying to get over my little mental roadblock with her, but I keep getting these annoying popins of her having sex with this guy with a pickle penis who stretched out her vagina. Is this even possible? She said that he wasnt good in bed but Im scared that she is just lying to me to make me feel ok. Girls, can a women stretch out after 7 times of sex with a larger penis almost one year ago? What should I do? Is there any girth enhancements? I really love this girl, but her past grosses me out. Please, help me Im trying to be patient and get over this problem both physically and mentally. I just want to be the best lover that she has ever had. I AM NOT A SELFISH LOVER EITHER. I have no problem going down on her for hours at a time if I have too. Please help me have better sex with her...Thanks
Guys and Girls Please help me! I need girth advice
no need to post the same thing in different forums.
sorry, i just didnt know where the MOST people would read my post at. What do you think moderator? In the male or female because I REALLY need the female advice. Sorry again
**This forum is fine and i have deleted the others anyway.
As for your post:
I agree 16 men at her age seems a little more than usual, however, you didn't say how many partners you have slept with? Unless you are with a virgin there will always have been someone else where you are going, for want of a better phrase - but that doesn't mean you will be the same as all the others in her mind, usually its the emotional attachment people have that makes sex amazing, and it seems that her past experiences have had little to do with proper love.
As for size, wow relax! the vagina goes back to almost normality after having a huge baby pushed out of it, im sure having sex with even a monster penis wouldn't stretch her, so no i don't think that he ex stretched her, some women are just wider than others, and when im really turned on i can fit 4 fingers up there too, but that doesn't mean that sex with me after that is crap for him, it isn't LOL there are tightening exercises for her muscles that she could do for a start to grip you when you are inside her, IF, its a problem.
You say that her ex has the girth of a pickle - im guessing this means thin???? - so why would you worry that hes the reason she isn't the tightest you have had, i think to be honest, the truth is she may not be the tightest, and you are finding reasons for it cos your are not happy with her past.
You have to get over her past, be confident in her when she says you are the best she has had, if there is love between you, its very possible that you ARE the best, not just sex, but sex and love together - its the best thing in the world. So she has a past, it will only become a problem IF you make it one...........If you love her then put it in the past where it belongs and enjoy what you have together.
My ex, was large in both length and girth, but that doesn't mean i enjoy sex with my manthing now any less than with him........does your GF know how you are feeling by the way?