all right, after my first time having sex i cummed after around 20 seconds. I was not using a condom. Is this common and will it go away?
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Pre mature ejaculation
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Probly so,you were probly so excited you blew to soon.I think most guys cum to quick the first time.I know I did.But you should alwys wear a condom.
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i didnt cum in her i took it out well before and she was just off her period which she told me decreases chances to almost zero for pregnancy and i had a condom but it busted...odnt worry were not doing that again
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It does decrease the chances of pregnancy but there is still a chance,pulling out is not a very effective birth control and there is still the risk of S.T.D's.It is best to get in the habit of wearing a condom,unless it's a long term relationship and she's on the pill or some other contraceptive is used or your trying to have kids, I would advise a condom
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Quote:use two for enhanced effect (decreased sensation) Helms, I picked up your typical tongue in cheek but some of the newer and younger members here might not have.Never wear two condoms at the same time. The friction is a recipe for failure, and a torn condom does you no good.
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Originally Posted By: HelmsmaNYes, but tell me, how much pleasure do you think you delivered in 20 seconds?Something to think hard about - is sex more about you getting off (and thusly using the girl as a cumhole), or is it an act of giving pleasure? Thats the reason i posted this topic, because i want to last long enough to pleasure her.
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Don't worry Jordan I'm sure as time goes by you'll be able to go longer(as you won't get as excited,its' hard the first time because it's your first time,and most of use guys have been dreaming of it for years),and good sex Isn't just aboout being able to hump for a long time,there's many other ways to please a women and give her plenty of orgasms before you ever stick it in.If you pleasure a woman with oral stimulation or hand stimulation then you don't have to fuck them for an hour and a half sometimes five or ten minutes is enough if you do things right beforehand
