im at the point where i know im ready to have sex. mentally physically and im with someone who most importantly im so comfortable with. he knows im a virgin, and he hasnt pressured me at all. it was somethin i had to think about , which ive done.
he was with one other girl (his 1st girlfriend, of who he dated for a year), so he IS experienced.
i dont wanna dissapoint him, really i dont. i want to make my first experience a memorable one for him too. the problem is, i have no clue what to do!? and the last thing i want is for him to think his ex is better than me. i know 1st time usually isnt the best, but i dont want it to be bad (especially for him). can anyone help? i want tips/guidelines on just about everything (if thats possible) PS. dont want to just lie there! :smile:
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Making Love for the first time
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First and foremost, don't worry too much. Relax and enjoy and don't be afraid to let him know when you're enjoying yourself.
Sometimes, inexperienced people can be shy about expressing their extacy.Other than that, I'm sure some of my esteemed female colligues can give you a few tips :wink:
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I agree with unsupervised.Don't worry about him - if he has any decency (and he sounds like a decent guy) he should be more concerned about making it a memorable experience for you. He won't expect you to know all the tricks in the book, or even any of them, so I bet my last dollar that he's quite willing to help you through and take lead of the situation.If I were you, I'd relax, communicate well, follow his lead and enjoy the ride.He cannot compare the two (sex with you and his ex), and he should not. Sex only becomes better as you get to know each other, and honestly I've found that the more you love someone, the better the sex. It's not just sex, it is making love.It sounds cheesy, but I honestly feel that way. Sex just isn't the same as making love.
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ahhh first time. Yes. I remember that. Don't worry. Have you ever watched sex on tv or anything like that? How much do you know about sex? Well b/c I am impatient, I can't wait until you answer that. Just have fun. Don't worry about him having a great time b/c he's worrying about that too. If you throw out the nervousness (yes i know, that's hard) then you will have a better time. If you want to grab his dick and suck, then do it. If you want to lay there like a log, then do it. If he wants to lay there like a log, lol then let him. Well like I said before, just have fun. Oh and it might hurt a little. My first time didn't hurt at all and I didn't bleed either. I was a lucky girl. Most girls first few times will hurt a little. But don't worry. It's also very pleasurable. And also, don't worry about telling him to slow down or anything else. I hear that some guys like being told what to do.Okay, well I hope that helped. If not, then I am a total waste. oh and one more thing. HAVE FUN!! and please use protection.