Hey recently i started flirting with this girl and now she wants to meet up with me at a friends house, but im not sure if i should go along with it because im scared of what she will think of me or if she will like me or not. I have a gf but she is on holiday for a month and we have been dating for almost a year now and im kinnda getting bored of her. What should i do?
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Need Advice
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Break up with your girlfriend and move on. If you are bored with her why keep her around? Seems pointless to me.As for this other girl, meet up with her and see what happens. After all she wants to meet you so she must be interested.
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But i tried to break up with my gf and she took it really badly and still wanted to go out with me so we're still going out
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So you'd rather stay in a relationship you are not happy with and take the chance of cheating on her instead of being an adult about the relationship and ending it?
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I dunno should i meet the other girl first then decide?
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What you should do is to stop fucking us around.
13 years old and dating a girl for a year that sucks your dick and your bored with her, not so long ago you were defending getting blow jobs from her. now your sick of her and want a new one.
Go jerk someone elses chain, if your going to feed us full of shit, atleast pick one layer of shit and feed us out of it rather then mxing it up. -
Shes away for quite a while
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You're 13 and sexually active? You have problems more serious than some girl who might like you.
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if you love her, then dont go for. but if you dont love her, go for it. it can make your relationship more exciting.((my boyfrend is saying all this))
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You know people who usually say they're bored...are usually the boring ones. my comment was pointless. But seriously, bored in a relationship....I think you should try to spice things up maybe. Try spending more time with the old and see if your heart is really gone. However if your heart is with the other girl...you can't stop it. Cheating is a bad thing. Don't cheat. If you wanna break up, you should go with it. If a girl starts bawling and crying...i guess its hard but try to turn your back on her and tell her you've made up your mind. If she's crying harder start tuning her out with some good muzik. Its harsh...but I know some girls that even though their boyz said they didn't like them no more they somehow "persuaded" them to stay. It doesn't help or save a relationship at all. You're just prolonging pain.Go with your heart I guess. Break up with your chick first. Are you afraid of being single? Afraid of losing one chick and not having another to fall back on. I was like that. Its not good. You're just making a mess then. You're 13? Still young. Hopefulyl you learn from experience that you should be one track mind. If you're with someone don't stray.Sigh. This is bad advice i know but...this is what I would do. I would flirt with that other girl and see if we get really close. When you feel like she flirts back too, and you've known her long enough. Break it off with the old and run for the new. Ask if she thinks you're cute. If she says yes then ask if she would ever consider you for bf. If the answers yes. Then...i guess you should break up with the old. You're not cheating yet because technically you're not asking her out. Your'e just...asking?I guess I was like u. And it scares me... lol...SIGH! YOU'RE STILL TOO YOUNG TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS! I feel like my mom *bites fingernails!*So yea. This is my very bad advice to the younger generation. Should I delete this post before he reads it!? Oh yea. I realized people who cheat are usually insecure. In some way or another. I was like that too. Insecure. Believing a new one would be better. its never true. You've built it...you should stay with it. Still young though. abc12321...seriously. Don't cheat anymore. Don't try to have two because you don't need that many. Somehow, cheating...i feel like its mostly the cheaters fault, almost never the cheatee.