I've only had sex with my girlfriend so far, but it's getting real boring. She basically just lays there and makes noise during intercourse. What things are women supposed to do?thanks,PEH
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What things should the girl do during sex?
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Thats a really difficult question to answer, because making love is something two people do together and every action provokes a reaction, something of a sort of sexual tennis match lets say.
It sounds like she is as inexperienced as you, and in that situation it's not like anybody is to blame that there arent fireworks going off. It's all about patience and practice. I think you should both get some good sex manuals and learn how to push eachothers sexual buttons.
Rather than focusing on what she's supposed to be doing in bed you should worry about hotting up your own game and she in turn will respond to that. Try reading 'she comes first' by Ian Kerner - a sex manual that should be presented to every male on his sixteenth birthday in my opinion. I'll be giving it to my own son when the time comes!
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(the fucking sex manual that is - ha ha)
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I dont think there is any rules on what your supost to do durning sex. I think it just depends on person. But defintly dont expect her to be like the girls are in porn movies or anything like that.
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OMG is there serously a sex manual. that just crazy. Anyway im just gona wait till the sex for dummies book comes out.
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sex for dummies...that would be a big seller!..So would "thinking with your little head".....Anyhow, Talk to her and ask her what she likes and tell her what you like and things will get better from there...Maybe she will surprise you.
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thats just wrong used sex for dumings i dont want to use someting that some one else used to have sex thats almost like using a used condom or dildo thats just wrong
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I suspect you might benefit from reading it. The author of the book is very well known.
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but get a new copy cause used ones don't seem right
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Maybe shes just not very good at it yet. she should at atleast make an effort though. tell her what you want her to do.
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thats just wrong, i didnt think there was one.
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You better be real careful telling her what to do. that could get you in real trouble.
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Given the questions posted here and elsewhere, it's a handy little book.
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Is that where you get all your advise from when someone asks a question on here. You just go get your own personal copy of sex for dummys then just tell everyone that. lol just kidding
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[The author][0] is still alive, and was very popular around the time you were born.
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OKay if she just lays there, she isn't getting pleasured. Believe me any woman who truly enjoys sex with their man will grab his shoulders or his back, clench with her fingers and scratch him(not hard though). Okay try talking dirty to her. When you are having sex ask her things like, do you like that? You want it fast or slow? But dont ask these questions before sex intiates because its a turn off and its what she will be expecting but in the heat of the moment she will tell you what she really wants. Hope this was of use to you.