I AM 16 YEARS OLD AND I GO TO HIGH SCHOOL. I REALLY NEED HELP MAKING FRIENDS. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MADE FUN OF OR IGNORED AT SCHOOL. I AM NOT THE TYPE TO GO AND START A CONVO, BUT I AM NOT THE TYPE TO GO SUCK UP TO ANYONE EITHER. I AM PRETTY MUCH THE "LONER" AS YOU WOULD SAY. I CAN'T SAY THAT I HAVE EVER HAD ONE TRUE FRIEND THAT I COULD SAY WAS MY FRIEND OR ONE THAT I COULD COUNT ON FOR HELP WHEN I NEEDED IT. I THINK I NEED ALL THE HELP YOU CAN GIVE REGARDING THIS MATTER. PLEASE HELP ME. EVEN THE SMALLEST ADVICE, HELP, OR TIP CAN DEFINITELY HELP. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING THIS POST.
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PLEASE HELP ME MAKE FRIENDS
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You need to get to be the kid who starts a conversation. Unless somone is really nice, if you don't start a conversation nobody will. Join a school club or something so that you can make friends with people who like the same things as you.Just things to think about.
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Good advice from chibishmoo. Also, don't expect to find that "one true friend". Friendship takes time to develop, through stages, starting from acquaintance. At any time, a person will normally have a couple of close friends, plus some more distant ones. Also, no person is going to fit exactly our personal model of an ideal friend - there always needs to be give and take. Don't expect too much, and then you might be pleasantly surprised.
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HUGS N CUDDLES::
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Bigbang go find someone shy and popular and just talk to them. I am popular, but shy. I am never the first to start a conversation, but i don't be rude to the "loosers", I always talk to them, if they start a conversation with me. Find that popular shy kid and talk to him, he will talk to you right back, you will become popular. Id people make fun of you just keep trying, don't let it get to you. GOOD LUCK
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Ill be your friendeveryone should have someone who they can talk tothat almost made me cryif u wanna talk im here dude!
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I believe a select few of us are just not meant to have friends... deal with it
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its comments like that, that can push people over the edgebut i guess everyone needs their 2 bobs
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Don't worry and true friends can take time or come outa nowhere so fast "if you was a jackrabit you'd be in the next county by now." My best friend, and he really is a true friend, moved to my school last year. Well I'm the type to say what the hell talk shy boy! So I got him to talk to me and within a week we were "chillin." Sometimes you gotta face the fact the even if you're shy, you hafta say to your self, I just have to talk to that guy( or girl) today ( or now) and dont procrastinate just do it. Million Dollar Friend Maker right there! I should sell that paragraph. :grin: