Ok, so there is this guy, who is questioning his sexual orientation. He enjoys the company of women, and only pictures himself having a serious relationship with a woman. However, he also fantasizes and masterbates to men. He only has desires to date women, but still is aroused by gay or bisexual ideas and images. I, i mean..he, is a mature 16 years old. I feel he is heteroflexible but am wondering how the public would see his preferences. I should mention he is a virgin and only plans on losing it to a female. Let me know guys and girls!
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How Would You Classify Him?
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It's obvious you are talking about yourself lol.Personally I would say there is come classic signs of curiousity but wouldn't go as far as labeling you anything like bi-sexual or gay or anything of the like. It's very normal at your age to be curious about the other sex, puberty is a crazy time when it comes to hormons.I wouldn't worry about labels.
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I think most of us are bisexual deep down, even if the upper brain often suppresses part of it. It sounds like this person is bisexual in terms of arousal, but looks to women romantically. I think that's not uncommon, even if there isn't a specific name. "Heteroflexible" or "bi-curious" probably cover it as well as anything.
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Ok, I feel the same way that noone is 100% straight. I was just wondering if feelings alone make someone bi or whatever. Thanks a lot.And how did you ever figure out I was talking about myself?
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In reply to: I, i mean..he, is a mature 16 years old. Was a pretty good give away
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lol, SOMEONE got it
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well yeah I figured that.. I didn't think for a minute that it wasn't deliberate, hence the " "
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haha, yea, I think we ALL have been using some sarcasm in this thread
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okay, 16? sorry but hes not mature. at that age a teenager is probably near the peak of sexual confusion. his finding guys attractive may be a passing phase- i mean, i can get turned on by girly guys ( not trannies, but pretty boys, jude law etc ) and that possibly because i like their girly features because it relates to what i find attractive in women. in any case, i dont consider myself bi, i consider myself bi-curious, but i dont take it too seriously. you shouldnt be worrying about your 'friend'. exploring your sexual curiosities is healthy and productive.
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I dont really consider Jude Law a "girly-boy" and I think hed be offended. haha. And by mature I meant for the age...ahead of most his age.
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In reply to:okay, 16? sorry but hes not mature someones age has almost nothing to do with how mature they are. like when someone says someone is mature for their age,they're just talking about the majority of that age group.
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right, all i meant was that at this guys age he can hardly be completely sure of his sexual orientation. plenty of straight guys indulge in mutual masturbation at a young age and never look at guys in a sexual sense in their later years. i didnt mean mature as in immature, kiddy, etc. but i apologize, i do often say stuff without thinking.
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lol thats ok.i do that a lot,too.
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hahaha, no problem...i understand where youre coming from
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Sounds a bit like me -- you aren't gay.
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Anyway, anyone with a pulse'd fancy Jude Law..
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Anyday... :smirk:
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...or night...morning...evening...or afternoon...ha ha. What was up with Sadie Frost divorcing him? Some women dont know they're born!
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From what I understand Jude cheated on her.Other than that I agree.. Jude is a "drool worthy" guy. Very sexy!
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Really? I never heard that. I suppose being with a walking sex-god would have it's downsides after all, you'd have to have eyes like a hawk watching out for all the other women trying to get in there, stressful stuff..