okay my mum found my porn collectionwhen she told me off about it it was the most awkward thing everhearing my mum use phrases like 'not a realistic portrayal of sex' and 'filthy, filth' will haunt my memory foreverhowever she didnt bother deleting it and just told me she didnt want to see it around anymore. oh, and she pulled out a mound of tissues big enough to plug the leak in the titanic under and behind my computer desk. i told them that i had a cold. haha, bad liar. anyway, i dont want things to be awkward and weird between me and my mom. i know im growing up but we're still affecionate sometimes, i still tell her i love her and that stuff, and i dont want that to go away.
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Your mam wont want it to go away either, trust me. My son is twelve and I'm sure I'll have the porno/masturbating thing to deal with too (I'd even be somewhat worried if I didnt!) Your mam knows it's just a part of growing up, she went through it herself, dont forget!Why dont you have a talk and tell her you're embarassed and dont want her to think any less of you? I'm sure that'd end in a cuddle and a reassurance that everything will be ok. From a mothers perspective, I'm sure she'll be feeling a bit awkward too, but that dosent mean she loves you any less. I think that little talk could be just the thing to get things back to normal. It'll take a bit of courage to initiate the conversation, but her heart will go out to you when you do, because she'll know how difficult it is for you, and I'm sure you'll find it worthwhile in the end, x.