I decided to post this separate as well. Hi, I'm 25, married for 3 years and came closest to my first orgasm the other day. Couple questions:1.) I also heard that the women would not be pleased by the actual if they used a vibrator or will it help me in reaching one without the vibrator.2.) Is it best to use something with the vibrator...jelly or anything? 3.) Could the fact that when I was younger, a guy talked me into sex, even though I didn't want to or enjoy it, cause problems for my lack of orgasms? Just curious....4.) And what exactly does it mean when a girl squirts. . 5.) About the urge to pee, totally have it...is this normal...afraid I am going to pee, lose concentration....Please if you can help on any or all of the questions. that would be great!!!Thanks
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- You will probably have an orgasm easier with a vibrator however, you could become so accustomed to using a vibrator for an orgasm that it becomes harder to achieve one otherwise through actual intercourse.2. If you ar wet, you probably don't need to.3. How old were you. I'd guess not but IDK.4. When a female has an intense orgasm usually a G-spot orgasm and she actually squirts a fluid from the urethra. It is not urine, rather a fluid secreted by ther Skene's galnd which surrounds the urethra.5. Often the urge to pee is a sign that you are on the verge of an orgasm. You should just let loose. Have a towel handy if you are concerned about "peeing".