You had some questions which I intend to respond to, but I’ll have to come back to them as I’m very busy at the moment. In the meantime I’m sure these comments will give you plenty to be going on with!What you are essentially saying is that none of these terms classifying sexual preference heterosexual/bisexual/homosexual, are valid viable terms since sexuality is prone to fluctuate and change. If that is true for descriptive terms dealing with sexuality, then, as I’ve said, we’ll have to get rid of descriptive terms dealing with anything that is liable to change. Should we stop calling people teachers/doctors/firefighters in case they, at some future time, change profession? No? I didn’t think so; so why dispense with descriptive terms dealing with sexuality? If a gay man says to you “I’m homosexual” are you going to say, “No – you cant describe yourself that way, as your sexuality is not set in stone and it is possible it might change”? Again – no? And again – I didn’t think so.The sense I’m getting is that you have no problem with these terms as long as people apply them to themselves, but they become a bone of contention for you if you see them applied by somebody else. Well, we have a saying here; ‘cap fit – cap wear’. It has its roots in the culture of calling a spade a spade. You can talk all day and attempt to confuse the issue if it pleases you, but it won’t change the fact that regular consensual homosexual sex is a pretty clear indicator of homosexual tendencies. I’m sure my twelve year old could tell you that!
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Mutual masturbation
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No, it's not just that people can change over time. It's that, while "homosexual act" may not be hard to define, "homosexual" is. Adolescents' sexuality can be pretty fuzzy. What purpose does it serve for you or him or anyone to put a label on it? Given that homosexuality is not widely accepted as a good thing, it's just another thing for an adolescent to worry about and obsess over.If you're completely heterosexual, then you go to prison for a year and have only homosexual sex, then you get out and once again have nothing but heterosexual sex, are you a homosexual, or a heterosexual, or did your sexual orientation change twice, or does it all just average out and your bisexual? Can you place a numerical weight on characteristics and acts, and then add them up to see what you are?It's not hard to distinguish a police officer from a civilian, even if he's a plain-clothes detective. In many cases, especially among young people, it's much harder to categorize someone's sexual orientation.Given that this Web site exists to help people, how would it help an adolescent who is not sure of his sexual orientation to put him in one column or another? That he should know the truth is not the right answer; the "truth" here is in dispute.
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Gosh you guys are still going on about this? *rolls eyes*
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Imagine that. Lots of post in a thread, and on topic. Pretty hard to believe, isn't it? Have you ever seen anything like it?Not every thread is for your entertainment.
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Yes, I'm shocked and amazed...about the fact that everyone in this world was not put on this earth simply to provide me entertainment, not the fact it's all on topic.
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well... i'll give you 2 kinds of advise, one is in english (and i'm not giving you the advise to be mean, just so you look cooler :P) and the other sexualDispite what some people will tell you, Being gay, or bi sexual isn't about sexual fantasies at all, it's about what i call romantisizing. (i cant spell either dude so dont feel bad) In other words if you take 2 pictures, one of you in a straight relationship with the girl of your dreams, or a gay relationship with the boy of your dreams, whether your gay or bi or straight depends on which picture(s) you choose. now, about that whole blow job thing (which personally i think are gross) if you want to fool people into thinking your english or american, you'd use The verb perform, and Give, not have, instead And also, it's not "For he letting me...." you can either use "For he's letting me" (to sound fancy) or... "For him letting me" for a more contemporary sounding.
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> or... "For him letting me" for a more contemporary sounding.
Or "for his letting me", if you prefer proper grammar. If you want to proofread all the postings on this site, you'll be busy for a very long time.
By "romanticizing", you're talking about which gender a person forms an emotional, romantic attachment to, regardless who he has sex with. Sounds pretty reasonable...sounds like something NtroducingMyself has said.
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> If you want to proofread all the postings on this site, you'll be busy for a very long time.
Truer words hath never been spoken.
But amazingly steve, some people manage to do it.
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hey,Im 14 and KNOW IM STRAIGHT. but im going through that phase that most people go through in their teens wondering what its like to mutually masturbate..Ive never done it...mainly cause 1) dont want people to think Im gay2) its awkward to just grab and shake a guys penis3) ITS WIERD HAVING YOUR FRIEND GRAB YOU!so hopefully Ill get over it and someday try so I can say I did it ...and prolly will hate it having a guy masturbate me.