I'd like to know from all the ladies out there: how does one correctly finger a girl? What techniques do you all especially respond to? And conversely, what techniques do you dislike or find uncomfortable? I appreciate your help.Derek, TX
How does one do it?
I'm not a woman but I have experience delivering a "fingering" . First off, the most sensitive area of her genitalia is her clitoris. Thats the little button or shaft nestled right between the lips at the very top of her vagina. Find the lips, then follop them up where they join and you'll feel a rubbery or hard lump. Thats it, you found her clit.OK so now... rubbing her clit directly can be very pleasurable when shes really aroused but if you're just getting started, or if the area is not wet, it can quickly irritate her and in fact turn her off completely. So rub around the area gently, as if you're stroking a cat's fur. Apply a light touch with a couple of fingers, and ensure your fingertips are really really wet from her lubrication or use your own lube (water or spit or some lotion).Now you're rubbing her there, you'll start seeing and hearing changes in how she's reacting. If her breathing quickens and she starts shaking or jerking her hips, stay with her and don't change anything, just keep doing what you're doing. She's about to have an orgasm, so stay with it, do the same thing with only very small changes, until she asks you to stop. A female orgasm is a sight to behold and your giving her one is a surefire way to ensure she will like you even more.However, if she looks totally bored or asleep, it's time to change your approach, try something different.Well, hopefully this helps...