well i can talk to my friends (mainly guys some girls sometimes) about anything that pops up in my head. always joking and being random to brighten the bleak momments. when it comes to other girls though...i can't do it for some reason like i think to myself that they aren't gonna like me if i say it (immature responses.) I'm not a guy who knows whats going on wi th the war and politics i'm more of a guy that talks about Tv stuff and whatever is happening in my town
Subjects to talk about
talk about her... tell her you like her shoes... then make some smart ass comment on them but then say "but besides that their good lookin" try this~Hey like your shoes
Thanks their new~yeah they'd work if you were a clownyou jackass~ but besides that they look pretty cool
I don't knowe about HeHe's sense of humpour, but his first comment "talk about her" is spot-on. In particular, ask her about herself and what she likes and what she wants to do with her life and listen attentively and you'll be fine.
HeHes sense of humor is generally more attractive than the ol' 'how are you' type questions.Women can talk to anybody about dull things like how they are and how schools going. If your actually trying to be attractive, be cocky and funny and ask more personal/emotional questions. 'How are you feeling?' is better than 'How are you?'To 'How are you?' the answer is usually 'Good, thanks, you?', whereas 'How are you feeling?' mite get a responce like 'im feeling a little anxious about the test...' bla bla bla, and you can move on from there.I couldn't think of a good example off the top of me head but as an advanced note, if you ask that kinda question, get her outta thinking negitivly otherwise she'll just see you as someone who she can talks to about her problems, and she really doesen't want that from a man. Also, don't try to solve her problems, women feel better after just saying their mind so don't try to help her with her problem just listen to it...if you must.