Well i always here this term "blue balls" and i always wonder what it really means. I think it means that when a guy gets excited and the cumm forces it self to the head of the penis and doesn't make it's way out...what do you do....DOES it hurt Guys i mean that would hurt if it was stuck in the there??
Does that hurt GUYS?
"Blue Balls" does hurt for a while, but its not intolerable pain. It's like a dull aching feeling, like someone kicked us in the balls, but not too hard. Its not a horrible feeling, but its kind of annoying. It usually goes away by itself after a few hours of not being aroused anymore, or just ejaculating usually relieves it right away. What causes blue balls is not sperm backing up anywhere. Blue balls is caused by what is called vascular congestion around the testicles, which is basically too much blood around them. When guys get aroused and are about to cum, extra blood rushes to the testicles - you may notice this effect if you watch a guy's balls closely right before he cums, the scrotum will get bigger and it draw the testicles tight, close to the body. Anyway, normally right after he ejaculates, the blood vessels relax, and the extra blood flows back out of the testicles. If there is no ejaculation, the extra blood tends to stay in the blood vessels around the testicles, and this extra blood puts pressure on the blood vessels, causing the pain or aching. There is no harm with blue balls, and no damage can occur, although it can be uncomfortable for a while. Some sleezy guys like to use the excuse of blue balls to get their girl to have sex with them or get them to ejaculate, like they're going to die if they don't cum. Don't believe them. They'll be fine with blue balls, and its nothing they can't take care of themselves with a quick jerking off session.
ive had it before my gf was jacking me off with her hand in my pants but i didnt come neways it doesnt hurt that much just really annoying so i masturbated and it went away
honestly, i think it can vary in pain
cause i've had it REALLY bad before...
even sitting down, my balls resting on the chair gave me extremly bad pain. i have found myself just laying down trying to sleep so it will just go away
its happened at least 3 times really bad where you just end up feeling so misrable...
and while i've had blueballs, i've 'finished the job' and that doesnt seem to solve the problem if its already giving me pain. if i know blueballs is gonna happen, i can goto the bathroom and relieve the pressure, but once its giving me pain, i cant get rid of it and it can be very bad
well thats my 2cents worth. it CAN be very bad :P
Yeah same thing happened to me. I was just about to have sex with my ex, but I wasn't ready for it mentally, but physically i was.
Obviously, though, I need to be stimulated for "it" to happen, and cos I wasnt ready, that never happened.
Afterwards it was the worst pain ever. And like cool said, "self-relief" didn't help
well, its happened to me twice in ~ 5 years of sexual activity, the first time was nothing, like you said, a small kick in the balls. but the second was absolutely intolerable, i could barely walk, took some aspirin and slept on it , was gone in the morning, but it WAS horribly painfull.
Yeah, the first time I got "BlueBalls" was 2 months ago or so. It didn't realy hurt at first, the only thing that doubled the "pain" was the fact that I had to walk home with it! I think I've toughened up since then.