My brother uses a vibrator?

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ok, i was just asking which was right. Amanda said the "can be" common, and Cool said that vibrators, no, but fingers are. So, that's what i was asking.

Um, as for snooping in his room, I don't know if you read my earlier posts, cuz it has it in there. I first went in there looking for our cats. That's when i saw the massager and took it. He came and "snooped" in my room looking for it and he took it (I wasn't sure if he was the one who took it, but was assuming). So, yes, I went back in his room looking for it, to see if he was the one who took it. I wasn't sure it was him, I thought maybe my mom took it. People are always comin in my room, so people "snoop" in mine. When I couldn't find it anywhere else in the house, I went back in his room. I was standing there thinking about where it could be, when i saw the gray cord. It was in the far corner of his bed, under pillows and a blanket. So, I found it...but I also found a rather nasty pillow.

As for posting things on here...what is wrong about that? You all do not know me or my brother, so what is the harm? It's not like I'm really embarrassing him! This site is called "afraid to ask" so I'm asking things, that I wouldn't have asked anyone else. What is with that?

I mentioned up there, the encounter of my brother asking where the massager was. I told him to use his hand. I have no problem with letting him masterbate in private...just don't use the family's massager. That's what I'm saying. He can masterbate all he wants as long as it's not involving anyone else. Using the massager, effects anyone else who uses it, not knowing that he shoves this thing on his ass. His masterbating in front of my 7 year old sister, or in front of anyone unwilling to watch, is not right. It was just a little freaky realizing what he was doing with it. It's just another thing to add to his list.

i'm really not in the mood for this... i was just saying he could be messing around with his dick with it. it don't always have to go up the ass. but what ever i don't care. he can use a curling iron for all i care.

I hear what you're saying, and he does sound a little twisted like masturbating in front of his little sister and stuff. But putting all that aside, it comes down to the massager. I never heard of a "family massager" before. Usually massagers are bought and used by one person, or two at most (husband and wife). I think he needs to get his own massager, and maybe you should have your own too. Buy him a massager for his birthday or christmas present. He'll love it, and you can get a laugh out of it, and he won't need to use the "family" massager for masturbation anymore, as he'll have his own.

G R O S S!!!the fact that you took it back is equally disgusting if not more disgusting than what he is doing with it. no matter what the object is, if that were my brother i would let him keep it. i wouldnt want anything back from him if i even had the slightest feeling that he used it sexually. In reply to:Don't use a back massager that the family uses so you can get off. but thats what YOU are doing too... right??? you definitely need your own vibe. and throw that filthy thing away girl! who knows who else in your house uses it!and it sounds like you are wasting an awful lot of energy on him. quit even bothering complaining about him. you know he is gross, he probably wont change, and if you are so disgusted with him you need to ignore him all together. in fact, if i were you i would try to get out of your house and never look back! when you are old enough to move out go get a job and get the hell out of there! unless you like the chaos!?!