I've always had this knack for pissing people off without even realizing it. I never know what I did, or said wrong until someone points it out to me. Then it is just blatantly obvious and I feel like a douchebag. I guess I've always wanted to know....just what is it people don't like about me? I've posted here for awhile, and judging from the 1 star rating I have I'm sure I must have rubbed a couple people the wrong way. So what don't you guys like about me? Be honest. I just want to know, because I'd like to be better at talking to people, and like I said, when I do something wrong I usually don't know it.
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What don't people like about me?
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the stars dont mean anything. see the faq for details.anyway, i know exactly how you feel. ive always had a knack for making people angry or sore at me by saying things without realizing theyre offended. people would call me a prick or an asshole behind my back- and i didnt understand it because i didnt mean to be a prick or an asshole. i guess all you can do is try not to say things that upset people, and if you fail at that, just be you and fuck what people think.if its any consolation, we both share this problem =)
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it is probably just me but the name animefreak tells alot about someone. all those kids are really annoying and lame.
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Radeckl: lol thxAfrica: It's good to know someone else shares this problem. I guess the only thing I can do to help it, that I can think of at least, is to make myself think before I speak. I'm....kind of bad at that, to say the least. lol. HelmsmaN: Yeah, youre right, the face-to-face relationships are what counts. (jc, what does BFD stand for?) i've never been one to shrug off insults or general nasty remarks, whether they are online or in person.gazgaz: well, at least you're honest. lol. you could be right, idk, i just chose the name because i like anime, and...it sounded ALOT better than my last name, blasterman988. lol. im really bad at coming up with names. but yeah, i use this name on IRC also, and i've definitely pissed off a couple people on there. so maybe this name does sound annoying to some people.
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yeah, i do that too. ill just talk without thinking at all. ive called people names without even considering my words first. and dont worry about people not liking you on the internet. it really, really doesnt matter, nor does it reflect how likeable you would be otherwise.
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well if you feel you're pissing people off just stop and analyse what you're saying before you say it, considering the person you're talking to and how they feel about certain things. my problem is that i think about things too much. lol.
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i guess i should post this while its fresh in my memory....i dont think it relates much to the subject at hand, but it is a good example of me being...well, me.
about twenty minutes ago i decided to go to a&w's for lunch, and i got a drink. i tried to get root beer from the fountain, but after i poured it it looked a little funky, and so i tasted it, and it tasted really bad, like....pop, without flavor. just that tangy sensation. anyway, i figured i should probably let them know, so i look over at the cashier and say "hey! there's no flavor in this one" and he looks at me and goes "i have no clue what youre talking about" and at a loss of words, the only thing i could think to say was "....it tastes like crap!" yeah yeah i know, haha im a moron. at this point he looks at the other customers and goes "uhhh what is he talking about" and at this point im feeling like a total dumbass and just walk away. so yeah, good example of me being an idiot
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well, thats hardly a big deal. maybe you should have just explained after he said i have no idea what your talking about that the soda tasted bad and maybe the machine was broken. just think before you talk.
btw, i wouldnt worry at all if it was a&w. those people are retards. i went there once in my entire life and it was awful. i got a paper cup from the counter, filled it with root beer and went to pay for it, and some lazy-eyed register biscuit gave me a lecture on how i did it wrong and how im meant to buy the cup first. seriously, she was way too into her job. even after i said 'okay fine im sorry' she kept going. probably mentally ill. so yeah, dont be too worried.
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hey thats funny that you said that anime freak. thats what you should do if they have shitty drinks.
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yea, i hate when i ask for sprite and it tasts like soda water, i swear, if soemone hated my guts and wanted to cause me a slow painful death, the could just paralyse me and stick a tube in my mouth conecket to a tub full of soda water, i like water, and i like soda, but together, its like bubbling death