Hi this is my first post, but this is the first time i need help.some info about me, i'm 17I had sex for the first time the other day and to be quite frank it was shit. I only lasted like 10mins before cumming. I didnt think i would have this problem, i just cum to early. My gf said its nothing to worry about and we can work things out, but is there any helkp i can get on these boards for some exercises or somthing.Thanks.
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First time sex problem!
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From what I hear if you're a virgin that's almost expected.
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Yeah. I haven't have sex yet, but I believe it is common. Unless you want to masturbate a while before you both have sex. Maybe that would make you less sensitive.
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Welcome to A2A. The rapid ejaculation you experienced is not uncommon. Many guys have either this problem or are unable to ejaculate their first time. Now that really sucks!!Relaxation is the key. You need to be in comfortable surroundings and take your time. Some guys have success with the stop and go method. Others find that masturbating first will slow them down. Were you having any concerns about being discovered?
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i was abit nervous but once i got my penis in i felt confident. I was going at moderate speed i would say but the fasteri got the more enjoyable for my gf it was.
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Hey bro - first time, thats great. Actually going 10 minutes is very good, the average for us is somewhere between 2.5 and 5 minutes once penetration and thrusting has begun. Sure, there are some that last longer and others that don't last that long. It takes practice man - two people have to work at it. There are some things you can do to slow down as well. Look up kegel exercises and premature ejaculation...you'll find lots of tips on how to slow things down a bit.
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I was just going to say what lance said, but he beat me to it! Seriously, 10 minutes is great if you were just going at it non-stop. That's more than double what the average guy lasts before cumming. If you do the stop and go method (pull out when you feel you are close to cumming, do something else for a minute or two, then go back in), you can last much longer. But for non-stop penetration, you're probably not gonna get much more than 10 minutes, and that's something you should be proud of, not ashamed about.
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ok thanks guys
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thats normal for your first time
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That's normal haha Don't worry about it, as you go along, it happens. You will last longer, but I've heard "jacking" off could help you last longer, let the girl take her time with you, don't just go for it, and move around for you don't "cum" so quick
