Ok so I gave my boyfriend 3 blowjobs, one time we got interupted, but the other times he just didn't orgasm. Which is fine, I mean i'm still kinda getting the hang of it. I have a really small jaw, and like its hard fit it in with out worrying about teeth. And then my gag reflex is really sensitive. Does any one have any advice about what I can to make it better for him? I can't change how small my jaw is or really my gag reflex (it's always been really sensitive). But i'd like to at least make him orgasm.
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Giving a good blowjob
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sometimes it's hard for guys to cum with a blowjob. it's not you. ask him how he likes it. does he want your hand involved (probably), does he want you to stroke him as you lick his balls? as specific as women can be about receiving oral sex, so can men be. throw some fantasy in there before to get his mind going to send him over the edge. most important, he should know what gets it for him so he can tell you. have fun.
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Ok thanks. Any other advice?
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know wut he likes, and have lots of variety
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Don't stop until he cums.
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the 2nd to last post is good but the last post might be too hard to do. Giving a blowjob, especially a good one, probably takes a lot of work. Okay well you say you have a small jaw and a sensitive gag reflex. Well just worry about the teeth issue and focus on his head. Then after a while of working, kissing, and licking the head, bring him in deeper in your mouth. Don't try to deepthroat since you can't but go in as far as possible. Just that will really shock him. Endurance might come with time.
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Thanks for the advice.
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If you want him to cum just by blowjob, the you have to use your tongue. Whirl it around his penis head, and alternate sucking speed and motion. If he don't cum that way, coongratulations, your bf is a bull!
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Well if your not hung like a mule and a girl knows what she is doing, I can't see any guy not being able to cum getting a bj. Anywho, here is a tip for youMy ex wasn't to keen on going all the way down because of gagging, so make the ok symbol(tip of pointer finger to tip of thumb making a circle. I idiot proofed it for ya just in case) with your hand of choice and use that while going down on him. You should have plenty of saliva on the fingers for a free lube. You can control how tight you wrap your fingers around him accordingly. This will give you about an inch with one finger and use more if he is a big mofo. Doing this at the same time with oral sex should do the trick. The above poster who mentioned using the tongue would be advanced training =] But no doubt when a girl knows how to use her tongue it kicks my ass everytime. Focus the tongue on the bottom of his member where a lot of the feel good sensations are located, but everyone has there spots, so you will have to learn his and in no time he will be begging for more.
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This thread's a little old, but since it's never actually "died" I'll respond.Yes, you should pay attention to the head--that's where the majority of the nerve-endings exist. But here's what a past girlfriend of mine would do: she's start with the head and lick and swirl her tongue, then she take me in her mouth as far as she felt comfortable, then out again for a little more work on the head. however, the most amazing thing she used to do was run her lips--with her wet tongue between them--up and down the underside of my penis. She'd do that a few times, sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly, and then she'd finish that move either by taking me all the way in her mouth or by working the head with her tongue again. There seemed to be no specific sequence to it, so I don't think it was any kind of program she'd worked out ahead of time. It was definitely effective. Oh, and one more thing: while you're giving him head, stroke and fondle his balls; NEVER squeeze, but roll his sack gently in your hand....and occasionally...be sure a finger--likely your pinky--brushes his butthole.Best of luck!
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I'm sorry but I would do anything to his dick and balls and eat his cum but I can't fuck with his ass that's nasty