is it possible to have unprotected sex and the female to be showing no effects of an std, but the male does? i have discussed it with her and she says that shes fine, no itchiness or soreness or discharge or anything - if i hadnt mentioned anything she wouldnt have either. i have experienced dryness and flaking of the skin on my foreskin, i moisturised it with E45 and it went away. but underneath the foreskin its still a red in little patches, noticeably sore, but nothing too worrying. embarrassingly, its been like this since october of last year. does it sound like anything to worry about?help help help!!!