Am I gay

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ive been having some thoughts lately that I might be bisexual, im not possitive if this is normal or not though.I dont really find the thought of gay sex attractive but ill be like wow thats a good looking guy if I see one. I sit next to a gay guy in my 5th hour and its starting to make me doubt my sexuality

Why would you ask us?

well i always think its a good looking guy if i see one. but im not gay

It's that hard to make a decision??

Seeing how it's a decision that seriously alters his life, yea that's a pretty hard decision.

You keep thinking that!

Based of M Scott Peck book The Road Less Travelled and other psychology book snippets he took showing love (and loss love) as a key sign of depression or living almost depressed free life not sure weather you're homosexual can alter your life very much.

Hmm. M Scott Peck, isn't he the guy that was caught plagerising? and then Perjury? Or am I thinking of someone else?It seems like other people chose their orientations easier, while others harder?

I think you're thinking of Jeffrey Archer, Benediction.

Die Romantic, it's normal in the teens for sexual orientation to be somewhat uncertain. Don't be in a hurry to give yourself a label; just take things as they are.

as a great philosipher once said "don't worry, your not gay, your...adventurous" that would be Greg House btw

ever since ive been sitting next to this gay guy im starting to think im just postponing the inevitible and im going to be gay no matter if I want to or not. Im not even sure if I dont want to be because I can kind of see myself being gay besides for the whole gay sex thing

whats ur hurry to deside one way or another? u have all the time in the world, theres no deadline for thing.relax, it will sort itself out ether way eventually, dont try and rush it cuz it could b embaressing should u come out as gay and then b like "oops, no, actually im streight, i was mistaken"

People aren't purely male or female, nor straight or homosexual. Based upon the way the brain develops, which is influenced primarily by genetics and chemical levels in your brain, you could be anywhere along a spectrum of being straight/gay. Some men are more feminine than others, some gay men are very masculine yet are attracted to the same sex despite the stereotype. There is really no dividing line that says you are this or you are that. It's just something you'll have to realize on your own. You may be slightly attracted to men but not be interested in having a sexual relationship, or you may be. Only time and self awareness will tell.

there's a difference between admiring beauty and being gay. I like majestic snow capped mountain scenery but I am not going to have sex with a mountain (though sex with a person i love on a mountain would be phenomenal).so don't worry about whether gay or straight - just admire who and what you choose and let life take whatever natural course it has in store for you. 'sides, if you love someone and want them for a life partner it really doesn't matter their gender or yours.

A colleage of mine is in the Army Reserve. He once told me that in a conversation with an Native Iraqi that in his country and many other middle eastern countries, a lot of men go to other men for sexual pleaure and still are married with children and are not considered gay. He says that that is part of their culture and its just how it is. Now I don't know how accuarate this is, so dont jump on my case if someone out there knows I have been missinformed.

I thought homosexuality was very frowned upon there.... Hmmm, strange.

Ha. Your straight.I'm bi... and, When i see a hot guy, i think about his penis and what underwear he wears ;Plol.and, if he is hot enough, he might enter my dreamm..same goes for girls :Pbut, with their boobs, not penis, and, not underwear. xD