Got beat up today

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ok, basically, i spent the weekend at my friends house. as i was walking to the bus stop from his house with him, and it had been a good weekend til this point, and we cut across a pub car park. now, my friend lives in a chavvy area...a chavvy area is an area in britain full of chavs, and a chav is basically someone who wears nothing but sportsgear, drinks cheap booze, and hangs around on streets looking for fights. anyway, so im dressed in a misfits shirt and tight jeans because i always dress like that and they started talking to me. i knew something bad was gonna happen and i tried to avoid it, but basically, one of them slapped me pretty hard across the face. i was ready to fight, but then i realized that the biggest of them looked pretty strong, and my friend is too weak to fight. (there was about 3 of them, the biggest was about 19 and taller than me, and they had friends behind them and in a car nearby ) i didnt have a chance so i walked away. one of them suggested pushing me into the car and 'kidnapping' me ( which is when chavs drive you into the middle of nowhere, beat the shit out of you and leave you there ) i felt so humiliated. they even told me if i had been wearing more neutral clothes ( im one of the very few people with the balls to dress like that in such chav infested places ) it probably wouldnt have happened. its true, but why should i change who i am just because some people cant leave me alone? my friend offered to get his older brothers gang involved, but nah, i thought id leave it. anyway these guys know what school i go to ( they asked ) and im pissed and upset . ive lost all self respect. i know the odds where against me but im so full of regret. i feel like a pussy. just thought id post this.-max

Max some people get beat up sometimes but the strongest thing we can do is get up after the fight and put yourself back together.

o god hunn....thats so scary!!

your not the one who should feel sorry at all. they seem like complete assholes who are REALLY bored. be whoever you want to be, dont let them push you around, tell the cops if they start to harrass you more (you should even tell them now). dont feel like them being jerks is your fault.

my god..this is just terrible....how can people get away with this shit??? :angry: . please tell someone, before they do this to someone else!!!!!

Getting beaten up is a horrible experience - a violation that leaves you trembling and fearful. In Hollywood movies people take vengeance but in real life it's not feasible. You couldn't have done anything else.You should report it to the police, but don't expect anything to be done.

Too bad Max Sounds very scary, just be glad it didn't get farther then that. I think you did the right thing! I agree, you did the right thing.

Get stronger friends!

I don't this is really the thread to be making jokes in.

Wasn't a joke. He needs stronger friends, especially in the area he lives in. Survival of the Fitess is here.

He didn't know if any of those guys had a weapon.

There wasn't much you could do once you were in that situation. Next time you know you're going through that area, keep in mind what may spark conflict. For example, I'm not going to walk through Blood Gang territory wearing a lot of blue. Changing your clothes for a day won't change who you are.

Ok, I'm one of the strongest kid in my grade, I bench press 180 which very few kids in my highschool can do (even football players) I do endurance training and calisthentics. There is 2 seniors that want to beat me up I am scared shitless because they will stab me. I would have a chance of beating them up in a fist fight (at least one of them) but with a knife? Are you kidding me? Websexinfo is right, they could of had a weapon.

yea, i'm not really worried abotu ever gettign the shit beat out of me, i got big friends, and i am no pussy, i can hold my own (least i hope so) and besides, i live in a good area. you did the right thing, those bastards shoudl be arested for being morons

.a chavvy area is an area in britain full of chavs, and a chav is basically someone who wears nothing but sportsgear, drinks cheap booze, and hangs around on streets looking for fights.I have no fucking clue what the hell a chav is, but a dickhead is a dickhead no matter what you call them, glorafied bully.>> anyway, so im dressed in a misfits shirt and tight jeans because i always dress like that Not a damned thing wrong with what you were wearing.>>and they started talking to me. i knew something bad was gonna happen and i tried to avoid it, but basically, one of them slapped me pretty hard across the face.Once I know something is going to happen, thats when I act, thats when I punch some asshoe in the throat, or break thier fucking knee, if you do it fast and hard, you can take 2 or 3 people out before they even know a fight started.>> i was ready to fight, but then i realized that the biggest of them looked pretty strong, and my friend is too weak to fight. (there was about 3 of them, the biggest was about 19 and taller than me, and they had friends behind them and in a car nearby ) i didnt have a chance so i walked away.size has nothing to do with the ability to fight, dont ever think it does. Iv beat the dogshit out of people the size of helms, and had my ass kicked by others who didnt look like they could bench press a drinking straw.>>> one of them suggested pushing me into the car and 'kidnapping' me ( which is when chavs drive you into the middle of nowhere, beat the shit out of you and leave you there )If your wiling to press charges, somethign can be done about the threat as well as the actual physical assault.Of course i only knwo about US laws, where you are it may be different.>> i felt so humiliated.And that, is why I fight, I cant stand that Im a fucking pussy and I know it feeling, I found it better to have my ass handed tome on a plate fthen to look in the mirror and know I didnt even try.Keep in mind that that attitude has gotten me shot once, and stabbed 2 other times, Iv also been cracked inteh head with pipes, and bats and had a few people hold me up while someone else has beaten me with various objects.Not always a wise decision, its all about what you can live with, keeping in mind that there is always a good chance you may not live thru a beating if you choose to fight.>> they even told me if i had been wearing more neutral clothes ( im one of the very few people with the balls to dress like that in such chav infested places ) it probably wouldnt have happened. its true, but why should i change who i am just because some people cant leave me alone?Fuckign good for you. you should change who you are, they are the fucking idiots who chose to start shit simply because you wore a tshirt with a bands name on it and tight jeans.>> my friend offered to get his older brothers gang involved, but nah, i thought id leave it. bad idea, you made a good choice in stopping that.Of course i only know about gangs inteh US fit could well be different in your neck of the woods.>>anyway these guys know what school i go to ( they asked ) You didnt have to answer>>and im pissed and upset . ive lost all self respect. i know the odds where against me but im so full of regret. i feel like a pussy. I would be too, its a natural normal reaction, its why Iv always chosen to fight since the first time I didnt and had to feel that feeling, and each time I looked in the mirror I had to know I was afraid to get hit, that I was a pussy. fWe already discussed this above, I now direct you back to the previous paragraph for my take on this.in summary, you didnt really get your ass beat, a slap in the mouth is far from beig beat up. You were assaulted, you did nothing about it, and thats whats really beating you up inside.He had no right starting shit with you, true enough, now you have to decide if you made the right choice to not fight.It may well of been the smartest, but that doesnt make it the best, thas something only you ca decide for yourself.always fighting leads to alot of shit, some good, alot bad, and you never know anymore whos gonna pull out a gun and blow your fucking head off rather then just having a few people beat the fucking snot out of you.Idont really have any advice for you, its somethign your going to have to deal with in your own mind, I will tell you that for all I did fight, that one I didnt still bothers me, of course all my fights lead to scars a bit of brain damage ( medically documented) a hell of a lot of pain, broken bones, fractured ribs on more then one occasion, 3 broken noses, broken wrists, arms, fingers, hands, 2 skull fractures, and one lovely night i went out alone, hit the store thinking I wanted clam chowder at 1 am, bought the shit to make it and walked ot my car in the parking lot. Woke up a bit later in an assload of blood and my sack of grocerys laying baout me and people asking me if I was ok.from what I can figure, someone whos ass I beat, saw a chance to get even, and did, totaly blindsided me, till I woke up I never knew i got hit. No stolen wallet, car still there not shit but a cut that took a few stitches to close on the back of my head and a torn ear, and 2 grand in dental bills, after my insurance paid, to drill 3 fake teeth into the top of my mouth right across the front.On the plus side, my teeth will survive a fire, or reentry to earths atmosphere because they are made of the same shit as the space shuttles tile.Fightig isnt always worth it since you dont always ein, even when you do win.

i envy your fearlessness, but i dont think ill ever be like that...:(

i dont have total faith in jesus but i do enjoy his teachings, like 'when your neighbour slaps you on one cheek you should turn the other'. now that isnt to say i didnt want to slap the fuckers, i had unconciously gotten in a stance because i realized i was taking my fists up and one of them told me not to do that. now, if i had just gone for it, which i felt i was going to, i may have gotten some of them, and then all their friends and family in the pub and the guys in the car would have wasted me. part of me prefers my pride to my physical wellbeing greatly, but im always forced to take the safest path by a little voice inside my brain. theres a boxing club near me, ( do you think 15 is too old to start boxing btw? ) and im getting a skipping rope, some grip things ( the garden shear handle things that build forearm strength ) and maybe some more equiptment. i think ill start jogging and eating a healthier diet too. i may not have the courage to fight now, but im promising myself that one day ill be the kind of guy who doesnt back down from any kind of shit.

PS- fun fact about chavs (and rude boys, which are like chavs but worse), sometimes they pull out weapons and force two guy friends to kiss/hug/worse while filming it on a mobile phone? didnt happen to me, but i would absolutely draw the line there. just a little factoid.

either you read it wrong, or I wrote it wrong.Im not fearless, Im sacred each time I get intoa fight, always have been. Its that I cant stand to look at myself knowing I ran off, that fear is what drives me to fight instead of backing down.Its not healthy to fight all the time, and as you get older you dont heal so fast, I am much more carful in my older age then I was 10 years ago. I used ot heal overnight it seemed, fready for a new fight with who ever wanted some in a matter of 24 hours Id be out looking for a new one. I dont go looking anymore. The shit hurts I havve permenant scars from it, fnot to mention that fit was the injuries from street fighting that got me the damage that got me banned from boxing in the ring, plus alot of dental work, fingers that will never be straight again, knuckles that are all fucked and bulked out from scar tissue and being broken so many times, one side of my ribs is flat rather then rounded and sitting the wrong way makes it hard to breath.My point was to say that fighting has its costs, Im 35 now I dont look forward to hitting people and being hit anymore. I try to stay out of situations that will lead to that. I can hold my own against about anyone even two of most people, after that I could use a hand, but I dont go looking any more, I dont have what it takes to back out if I get into a situation, Im a bit jealous that you dof.Youd dint take shti from someone for years who constantly threatened you, you looked at a situation that could of beena fight, and decided it wasnt worth doing it at that time.I dont think that makes you chickenshit like akid who si constantly bullied by his pers day in and out for years and never does anything about it, if anything in that situation it probally means your smarter then I am because I would of been looking to take out as many as possible befor I got my ass stomped.My point ?You dont have to fihgt all the time, you dont have to feel shitty because you didnt fight, there are better situations to back it up and some that you should jsut get the fuck out of.I rather like you, sorta consider you my enifactor for all my boxinf experiencef as I sahred alot of shit with you on how and where and offered anythign I could on actual ring experience and how to get it an who to get involved with Id hate to see some punk ass pussy ass bitch mother fuckers end your desire to box.fighting and boxing are two different worlds.and they are pussy ass fuck face bastards, they are only tough when there are several of them, picking on younger smaller people, that doesnt make you tough, it makes you a scared chickenshit little bastard.Now think about that shit, you did fine by not fighting and dont let it dampen yor spirits on life, or on boxing, and for fuck sakes dont become one of those chickenshit bitches that go around picking onpeople, abusing the smaller weaker ones jsut because you can.I hate those mother fuckers, I still like to give thema rap in the mouth when the situation arises, those fuckers got it coming.

Well said grvtykllr.Africa, chavs are the scummyest, oxygen thieving bastards (and most of them are technically) this country has seen for a while. And I am not comforted in the knowledge that they are cared for by my taxes and are producing little bastard chavs who could have as many fathers as their mothers IQ -note that’s not more than 10.Just have the knowledge that you are so much better than them if that’s comforting at all.When in a fight, you are always scared. However the unknown in a fight is all you are scared of. Will you win? Will you lose? Will you be injured? Will you die? The next few minutes could dictate what happens for the rest of your life.You need to control your fear, get sparked up and use that fear as anger. Would you run to the aid of an elderly person getting mugged?A defenceless girl from a rapist? I would anyway, caution to the wind and bollocks to the consequences.The aim is to NEVER to get into a fight. Cross to the other side of the road, ignore any comments. Pride has caused many fights. Look what is going on now with the pope. They are only ever words.Ignoring them doesn't make you weak. But the bigger man. They want a reaction. Probably not much unlike the one you gave.Just a point though. SCUM as they are, as you found out, chavs can hurt you. Now, no matter how many movies you have seen or martial arts you do, taking on more than 1 person is just unrealistic. It doesn't work like it does in the movies.Anyway, the best way to win a fight is to pick the battle. I want to be a soldier, the Royal Marine commandos. Hopefully one day I will stand alongside these guys with my head held high. And, given the chance will command them. Some thing to remember though.The mark of a good commander is to be able to gain victory, but the mark of a great one is to know when victory is not possible.Mr. Nuts

you said, the next few minutes?If your a fight that last a few minutes, and its not in the ring, with rules nad gloves and gear, your doing shit wrong and niether of you have any business fighting.Iv been in far too many fights, 80% of them last fbetween 2 and 12 seconds. If you cant put one person down in that time or him put you down, then you really should be more careful who the hell ya lip off too. I dont think Iv ever hada fight go over 20 or 30 seconds at the absolute most.the point is to cause massive damage and pain, to keep teh other person from being able to fight or suck out the will they have to fight. If ya know what your doing it dont take long to KO them, or atleast hurt them so bad they can no longer stand, or at the very least make them lose any and all desire to continue on with it.Break ribs, noses, a slug to the adams apple fucks people up quikly, so does sweeking the kne cap with the heel of your boot, sends em tot he ground and takes medical help to get htem on thier feet again.If iM in a fight, Im not there to fuck around.People that pull over on the road to fight, I make sure im out of hte car first, I have ended up fighting 3 or 4 people by myself in one car. first one out can always kick that door shut on the fuck heads leg as he trys to get out, that normally results in either a broken leg, or atleast the lack of ability to get up and fight from pain. after that over the top of the car via the hood and a nice kick to some fucks head onteh passenger side, always lead with the heel so ya dont break a foot or toes, a well placed foot to the nose breaks it nicely, blood goe everywhere they fall down, now you took out 2 people in a matter of 10 seconds, after that most people still inteh car dont want anything to do with you or your going ot get your ass shot, one of the two.If you cant finish it in seconds rather then minutes, you shouldnt be fighting to begin with.

I must congratulate you grvtykllr, you have managed to pick apart one single word of the entire text I have written and wrote your response on that.Its like your in a whole other world ..... Ooooooh dammit, now look what I’ve done, now your next post is going to be you explaining how you’re not in another world.It was purely an expression of a small amount of time.Besides, it will be worth noting that fighting is a LAST RESORT. And therefore you should try ever method possible to avoid conflict (which does take minutes). If you can't understand that then YOU shouldn't be fighting.By your last post it almost sounds like a dick-measuring war story.Fighting is neither big nor clever. However it is a fact of life. And the point is only to get what you want only and NOT to cause permanent or serious injury to them.I have never been in a fight because of anger. Always because someone has attacked me or one of my friends. If you are getting into fights just because you are angry then perhaps you should take some maturity tablets. Damn, I’ve done it again; your next post will be about how maturity tablets don't exist.I eagerly await your gracious reply.Mr. Nuts